Hi Peggy and welcome!
Will your garden be in the sun? It should be. I am an empty nester, so, it's been 20 years since I've gardened with my little boys, but these are some of my memories.
The peas from my little garden were the sweetest ever. Even if you don't plant sugar snap, you can eat the pods if you pick them fresh. The only thing is, really, peas are a cool weather crop, meaning, where we lived, NJ and eastern PA, they were planted St. Patty's day or a bit later, and when it got hot, the plants died, so we had great peas for about 1 week. This was a pick and eat garden, to serve them at the table, we needed lots more than I could grow. But really we would have enough to serve, but they got eaten on the way to the kitchen.
Cucumbers and tomatoes were my biggest successes as far as production. They and asparagus are the only kinds of vegetables that I continue to have every year.
My kids loved to pick broccoli "trees" and we did grow enough to serve. They are also a cool weather crop, later than peas, but basically you get one good sized head crop from each bush.
You need lots of corn stalks for pollination. I would plant 4 10 ft. rows at a time, and we got some great corn., but some teeny ones that were hardly pollinated. DH thought it was better to go to the farmer's market. He didn't "get" it.
Pumpkins take lots of room. But you can carve your kids initials in one when the pumpkin is small, and it grows with a scar.
There are "baby" sized plants, but I've never used them.
Sunflowers, huge ones are great. One of the books I used said to plant 4 rows like a huge square or rectangle and your kids would have a playroom. The birds would pick at the seeds. Grackles would pull out the tender plants, so I never could get a 4 sided room.
You also have to decide what you're going to do about insects. Plant disease resisitant varieties of whatever type of vegetables. You probably will get cucumber beetles, corn borers and others, decide how you will handle them.
My kids loved to help me with some of the chores associated with gardening. We had some fun, and my oldest, now 29 has had me help plan his garden at his own home. THAT was a huge reward to me, sharing a life-long love with my son.
And it all started with a SEED!
Bobbi
