Calling all single moms!

LaurLaur04

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I would love to hear some stories (pics would be awesome too!) of some of you who have ventured to the world alone with your child. Any tips would be helpful as well. I am taking my 2 yr old (will turn 3 on trip) in September and I am just curious as to how it has gone for other single moms with small kids! TIA! :)
 
I am wondering the same thing. I am taking my daughter this May who will have just turned 6 on April 26th.
 
I've always been a single mom and have been taking my DD to Disney since she was 3 so it's normal for me. She is now 16 and I still take her.
I love having the freedom of doing whatever we wanted, just the 2 of us. :cutie: I think it's a great thing to do and it creates wonderful memories. The child gets all the attention and you can catch every smile and gleam in their eye. Cherish every moment of them being young because they grow up so fast. Now, the only way to get DD16 more excited about going to WDW is if one of her friend's come along. Which, I don't mind and I actually enjoy a 3rd person.
 
I went with my daughter last year (she was 7)--we had a great time! I agree with the PP, it was wonderful to have all of that freedom to just go where we wanted to! I made sure that we had some downtime every day--just to go swimming or hang out at the arcade.

We were on the deluxe plan, so yes, I did drag her to some signature places with me--and she loved it! She also got her share of character meals, so it was all fair. :)
 

My daughter and I have traveled to WDW by ourselves a couple of times, with most recently being last year. We went to WDW and also the Disney Cruise. We are leaving in a couple of weeks again by ourselves, and we love it! Even with the long drive, though sometimes tiresome, is part of the fun. We catch up on our alone time, talking about school, etc and all the teen chatter!

It gives us much needed time to be with each other away from the High School stress, single parent stress, and just all the stresses of life.

You can check out my TR for pics, etc.
 
I am not a single mom but we travel like I am.My husband doesnt enjoy theme parks and resorts.Last summer my DD age 10 and I took 7 trips on our own!We have a blast!If you drive I would suggest making the child sit in the back even if they are old enough for the front seat!My DD drives me nuts in the front messing with the GPS,radio ect....So much that it distracts me from the road!I set up the backseat with laptop movies small cooler with food snacks ect.We try not to stop too much just seems safer that way!This summer will be our 1st trip on a plane and also 1st trip to WDW!We are staying for 11 days.My dad is going to join us for the last 4 days,which will be nice to get a little break by then and have some adult conversation!I also insist that my DD carry a cell phone at all times so if we get seperated we can call each other.I do worry sometimes if I would get hurt or something but my DD knows who to call, they are all programmed in her phone!I am looking forward to the bus system so I dont have to drive and relax.In the past when I have been in heavy traffic and it gets hairy I tell my DD put on your headphones and turn up the volume and close your eyes and pretend we arent in this traffic!The real reason is I dont want her to hear my language when stressed!LOL!Good luck to you and enjoy your little one they grow up so fast!
 
I am getting ready to book a trip in October for a few nights with my 5 yr old daughter. It will be the first trip I have taken with her alone. We have been to Disney twice with my sister and dad. I am not the bravest person in the world but I am getting excited.
 
I've been traveling to Disney alone with my daughter since she was 18 months old. The best advise I can give is to go with the flow, don't expect to do a ton of things, and just have fun! Nap when it's needed, take time to stop and smell the roses. My guess is the best memories of your trip will be the unexpected little things.

Some of my greatest memories are of our Disney trips together, just the 2 of us. It's so incredible for us to get away and just have FUN together, doing whatever we want, when we want and how we want.

Here are some pictures of our 2nd trip together, when she was 3-1/2 years old:

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I've always been a single mom and have been taking my DD to Disney since she was 3 so it's normal for me. She is now 16 and I still take her.

Same here, my dd is almost 13 and has been going since 3. Even though it's just the 2 of us 24/7, we enjoy it SO much more in Disney. I actually get to relax, and we really get to play. Plus, my dd was born a picky eater (texture and color issues) and as she's grown out of it, we've had a blast eating at Disney TS restaurants. Now we have more meals to eat than days in our trip.

This year, we're trying to bring a friend. We're going for 10 days, and I told the mom that it was for the entire trip. My dd just told me that she wanted the first few days to be just the two of us. :love: It really is our special place.

Shyjade, you are so right (and your dd is adorable). It will be the unexpected, little things that will make your trip.
 
Single Dad here.

I have traveled to the parks 3 times with just me and my kids. Once with a 2 and 3 year old girls, once with 4 and 5 year old girls, and once with 7 and 8 year old girls. It is always magical, but sometimes difficult with only one adult. (especially when I need to use the bathroom).

Based on your child's age, here is some advice:
1. Have a good stroller. A jogger stroller is preferable because of the ability to carry so much extra stuff.

2. Have extra drinks and snacks with you at all times. Getting food is a lot more difficult and time consuming with only one adult. Having a quick granola bar or fruit snacks to tide them over makes things a lot easier.

3. Spend some time at the various playgrounds in the parks. It is a great time to let them run off steam while you can sit and catch your breath.

4. Bring a blanket with you and plan on taking lots of naps. I found when I put my tired kids in the stroller with a blanket and rolled around the parks, they fell asleep in no time.

5. Plan for extra time. Getting on and off the buses, getting stuff from the stroller, or general navigation is sometimes more time consuming without two sets of adult hands. You have to watch your kid and do something at the same time, in a busy crowd. It will take longer, so plan for it.

6. When in doubt, ask a Cast member. They are great for helping distract your kid while you do something. (like go to the bathroom)

Good luck! It is always fun. And just think of how lucky you are to be the only one who sees the Magic in their eyes when you take them to the parks!
 
I'm a single mom who has taken her DD to WDW twice alone. First trip DD was 3.5 yo. Last trip was for DD's 5th birthday. We have another trip planned for August of this year. Unfortunately I don't have my photos with me right now or I'd post some.

I'd recommend staying at a MK area resort if you can swing it financially. Our first trip we stayed at POFQ, which was great and I'd go back there in a heartbeat, but for our second trip we stayed at WL and I loved having the boat to the MK. Our next trip will be to the Poly, which I wanted specifically for the monorail access.

Plan for downtime. Don't try morning til night at the parks. You both will wear down quickly. Go back to your resort for a nap mid-day. You will appreciate it as much as your child.

There are pros and cons to bringing your own stroller versus renting one at the parks. Our first trip, I rented. It was nice not to have to fold and lug a stroller on the bus. But I missed having a stroller at the resort. Our last night there, we stayed a little later than planned at the MK and DD fell asleep on the busride back to the resort. The problem was we hadn't eaten dinner yet. I couldn't wake her up, and it was not fun carrying a sleeping child on my shoulder while I negotiated the food court at POFQ. So I brought our own stroller for our second trip, and there were times I really wished I didn't have to carry onto the transportation. I'm planning a stroller-free trip for August. DD will be almost 7 and I figure I can rent if I have to but I'll try not to.

Use Photopass photographers! It's nice to have photos of you and your child together.

DD and I had a blast both times! Go and have fun!
 
Single mom of 2 here :)
Going for our 3rd trip in June! I waited until the kids were a little older. My DS was 11 and my DD was 10 on our first trip. This trip they are DS 13 and DD will turn 12 during the trip.
This is one place there is no running to sporting events, dance classes, choir concerts, etc..... Also, there is no internet, or Wii :scared1: It's just me and the kids (and grandma came the last trip). It's a great way to just spend time with just them. No outside friends, no phone calls, no shutting themselves in their rooms......just mom and kids time. My DD and DS hate each other at home, but at WDW they LOVE each other ;)

Have a GREAT time!
 
Me and my 2 DD's 5 & 7 went last Dec and we have another trip booked for this Dec as well. I think it's great going alone with the kids.
My one piece of advice is to go to the bathroom before any long lines you get into, once you are in the line you can't leave to hit the potty without losing your spot.

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I have been a single mom for almost a year now. It has been a VERY big adjustment. I was able to take my kids to Disney last June for the first time as a single mom. It was one of the most wonderful trips EVER. To travel on a plane with my 3 kids as being the ONLY adult in the group? That was huge for me. To find the ME, to check in, to find the Disney buses....Things that people do all the time, was something that I just relied on my X-husband to do. So...It was so FREEING and HUGE for me to be able to accomplish everything ON MY OWN and have an incredible time with my kids. Here are some pics!

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I agree with all the posters here!!! I've been a single mom for 7 or so years now and took my Victoria during Christmas 2008. It's wonderful just being her and I going on trips! This year, we are going on my Disneymoon with the new husband and Victoria has graciously "allowed" him to come with us!! :lmao:
 
Speaking as the child, my mom and I had a great time during our alone times. They were many a year ago, so I have no digital pics of our trips. I have gone with both parents (prior to their divorce), just my mom and a family reunion. The mother-daughter trips were the best (outisde of the husband-wife trips with my dh ;)).

As the single dad mentioned, it should be easier since you are dealing with a female child for bathrooms and such. You will have a great time!
 
Single Dad here.

I have traveled to the parks 3 times with just me and my kids. Once with a 2 and 3 year old girls, once with 4 and 5 year old girls, and once with 7 and 8 year old girls. It is always magical, but sometimes difficult with only one adult. (especially when I need to use the bathroom).

Based on your child's age, here is some advice:
1. Have a good stroller. A jogger stroller is preferable because of the ability to carry so much extra stuff.

Yes, your own stoller is something of a security crutch - and will save you some money too!

2. Have extra drinks and snacks with you at all times. Getting food is a lot more difficult and time consuming with only one adult. Having a quick granola bar or fruit snacks to tide them over makes things a lot easier.

Excellent advice. YOu will not believe how much you will appreciate having done this. Kids announce that they are hungry "now" and waiting in lines to get something is unnecessary stress! To add to that, (my DD was 7 on our trip last year) I always have a small airtight container with a lid. Kids dont finish their food a lot of the time and then half an hour later they are starving and cranky. You will be able to keep the leftovers for later without ruining things in your bag. I also take a plastic sports bottle (you may sub for sippy cup if still used) with some juice in it. Once it is empty, you can decant some of the beverage from your meals into there to keep it handy for later.

3. Spend some time at the various playgrounds in the parks. It is a great time to let them run off steam while you can sit and catch your breath.

That goes for resort playgrounds too. Aside from some down time and allowing some exercise (read: sleep well at night :lmao:), the best part of this is that you get to socialize with other parents - don't forget you need some adult company too and you will all have a common talking point: kids! ;)

4. Bring a blanket with you and plan on taking lots of naps. I found when I put my tired kids in the stroller with a blanket and rolled around the parks, they fell asleep in no time.

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5. Plan for extra time. Getting on and off the buses, getting stuff from the stroller, or general navigation is sometimes more time consuming without two sets of adult hands. You have to watch your kid and do something at the same time, in a busy crowd. It will take longer, so plan for it.

That goes for your touring time of the parks too. The great thing with just the 2 of you is that if your child gets a bit fussy and tired, you can just stop, wthout it impacting on anyone else. I have wonderful memories of sitting in the shade hunting for ladybugs while the crowds were heaving around us. It is a special part of the magic and often a great opportunity for some really natural photos.

6. When in doubt, ask a Cast member. They are great for helping distract your kid while you do something. (like go to the bathroom)

Oh yes! They are wonderful!

Another thing, remember to take loads of photographs and when people offer to take pics of you two together with your camera, say yes! My first trip had about 1000 pics - DD was in pretty much all of them. I was in 6! Now I prefer to be behind the camera than in front of the lens, but when your little one gets older, those pics of you together will be treasures.

Have realistic expectations. My attitude still is, we do what we can. What we can't do/isn't age appropriate yet, can be done when the time is right and we both get to enjoy it - together.

Keep a few toys/coloring pages/crayons etc in your backpack. It is great when you are waiting for stuff to be able to give the little one something to do. I still do it! It is especially good when waiting for food at a restaurant.

One last thing: Disney is the only vacation I do. I am a single mom and have one DD (just turned 8 this month). I need to know that I am safe where I am going. Disney checks more boxes in that department than anywhere else.

Most importantly, have a great time and don't forget your trip report so we can all read about it. :goodvibes
 
Although I'm married, DD and I have done a number of trips on our own (including a cross country flight when she was 6 weeks old...)

In addition to all the great advice you've gotten here, if your daughter has the kind of personality where she'll like being a 'big girl', you might want to start now working on "stay right there". It made it *MUCH* easier to get stuff on/off the bus, and a couple of other times, if she could be in eyesight/close but not right next to me holding my hand. I'm pretty sure she was just that age on the first trip it worked, but we worked on it at home first: "Stay right there while I xxxx". When she does it, praise her effusively. (Yes, it's a little like training a dog)

Even though I used it very rarely, it was very reassuring to me to know that I could do it if necessary. At six, even though she's safe many places without holding hands, we still use it occasionally (crowded parking lots where we get out of the car on different sides, times I need to take care of something and it's crowded but easier to have two hands, etc.)

As PP's have said - it's very fun to be "just the two of you", especially with the right attitude.
 
Enjoy your trip...have tons of water, and ice cream, and ice pops...do whatever it is that you two want to do at that moment...have fun
here we are on our fifth WDW trip and our first breakfast at CRT:thumbsup2

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Oh thank you for starting this thread! I'm not single but I'll be going it alone with my son this summer while his sister is at Sea World camp and the hubby is trapped at a desk at home. I'm excited! :yay: It will be a whole new adventure. Can't wait to read more tips.
 


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