I've had some different experiences than some posted on here.
For one, I found the Grand Californian heavily (and beautifully) themed. Our AP rates often get us nights there for about 200, which is far less expensive than any of our concierge rates at WDW. We stayed at Paradise Pier two months ago for 99 (AP rate).
Paradise Pier I found a pleasant surprise--it was much nicer than I was expecting, and I preferred the decor, room and staff to the experience we had at the Disneyland Hotel.
I was really disappointed with the Disneyland hotel! I had wanted to stay there since I was a child, so I was very excited, and our room was literally the smallest hotel room I have ever stayed in. There was one queen bed and about a foot maybe of space between the edge of the bed and the walls, and no other furniture other than the TV. I found out later that this is not the normal room size at DLH, so I apparently had a room that was spliced up by an elevator shaft or janitor closet or something...I mean, it was TINY. I did not find the staff friendly--the lack of friendly service was what really disappointed me. I have had the opposite experience at the Grand Californian. We stayed there over labor day and the staff was lovely. It was my son's birthday and they gave us a call from Goofy, gave him an autographed picture from Mickey, and gave me a tour of the concierge lounge. At AKL concierge, we never got so much as a verbal happy birthday for our birthday stay (noted on reservation)! At the Grand Californian, he got a button and all day CMs were saying happy birthday to him, in the parks and at the hotel, and we got an unanticipated upgrade to theme park view from a standard view.
I think the hotel is gorgeous and very comfortable. Nothing like the fireplaces, the children's storytime and relaxing under trellis's vined with rose and bouganvilla while relaxing in the jacuzzi (with California Adventures music and lights above you). Amazing!
As far as comparable WDW hotels, the Contemporary is definitely most like the Disneyland Hotel. (While the Grand Californian is definitely a more luxurious Wilderness Lodge). The Contemporary has monorail access, lots of shops like the Disneyland Hotel, and has that same Disney city feel to it. I would say it has about the same amount of amenities, with the added bonus of the lake at CR!
Some say the DLH is a cross between the CR and Poly because there's that Peter Pan element around the pool area at DLH. Poly is much more heavily themed, however; so I don't really see them as having much in common. Poly is more expensive than DLH. CR would be more comparably priced (at least it is cheaper than the GF or Poly, and would have those large rooms you're looking for).
I agree that AKL probably wouldn't be for you, but I have to say I find AKL's pool area of the most exciting onsite, because it is flanked by animals and looks like an oasis in the middle of the desert. It is very exotic and beautiful! Love those nights in the jacuzzi under the stars and half masked by African foliage planted around the tub....the theming there is just unbelieveable.
Have you checked pics yet to see what themes at WDW appeal to you?
