Things you can ask for shore side -- where you would like to sit in the restaurants, a waiter you like, get things set up for you or others ( if you are linked to family) such as pack n plays, booster seats or highchairs in the restaurants, you can reserve the cabana at 12:01:01 Eastern time. On board you can get more set up at the Concierge meeting on ship right when you board --Meet and greets, Anna and Elsa, princess tea, -- can anyone think of more??