Charade
<font color=royalblue>I'm the one on the LEFT side
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ThAnswr said:I had to see this again.
Do you need glasses? Did something happen to your reading skills?

ThAnswr said:I had to see this again.
minniepumpernickel said:The dead can't speak. If a mother doesn't have a right to speak for her dead son, then your opinion must be more valid then hers?![]()
Charade said:But in his life before he died, he did speak. He reenlisted to go back to Iraq. That pretty much indicates what was on his mind at the time.
Charade said:But in his life before he died, he did speak. He reenlisted to go back to Iraq. That pretty much indicates what was on his mind at the time.
ThAnswr said:Frankly, I hope he never meets her too. I'm enjoying watching the sight of how one little woman on a roadside in Crawford, TX can cause the righties to rachet up the rhetoric and turn themselves inside out.
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peachgirl said:That said, I'm not going to rebut every slimy attack against her. I'm going to just let the right continue to do themselves damage by attacking the mother of a dead soldier. Carry on, you're helping us more than you can possibly imagine.
Charade said:Can I assume you agree with EVERYTHING she has said so far? And I do mean *everything*.
peachgirl said:Read the thread and catch up, that's already been covered.
Charade said:In less time than you took to write your response could have said yes or no.
DisDuck said:So still waiting to be convinced that nation-building is a responsibility of the US as that is all that we are doing. Iraq was never a direct, immediate threat in the past or future to the US.
Unfortunately, William J. Maher, Jr. has something in common with Cindy Sheehan. Both lost sons in Iraq.
William lost Billy. Cindy lost Casey.
And they have something else in common. Both were offered condolences in a private meeting by the President of the United States. Cindy Sheehan wasn't satisfied with her meeting and wants another. That made me wonder what the President is like in the context of bereavement. So this week, I sought out William Maher to ask him about the death of his son, and his audience with the President.
William J. Maher, III, was the 50th American to die in combat in Iraq. He was born and raised in the Philadelphia suburbs. After high school, he dabbled in a few things before finding his calling the military.
"He fell in love with army," his dad told me.
"He was the kind of kid who would go to a baseball game, and damn near break down in tears when they'd sing the National Anthem. He always said, 'That just does something to me, dad.' And this was when he was a little guy. He was always patriotic, loved his family, his country and his friends. He really did love life."
Army specialist Maher, 35, was killed by an explosive dropped from an overpass in central Baghdad as he drove a Humvee on July 28, 2003. His parents got the word hours later.
"I got a call from my wife, who was at home, and said that two officers had come to the house, it was a Monday. I shot right home, that is how we found out. After that, things were a blur. You cannot imagine the response we got from all across the United States. Hand-knitted blankets and things, the outpouring of the American people was phenomenal."
Part of the outpouring to which he referred was from the President himself.
This past February, Maher, and his wife, Adeline, met with the President at the Willow Grove Naval Air Station in Warminster, PA. The President was in town to sell his Social Security plan. He made time to meet with the Mahers, so long as they would follow one ground rule.
"When the White House called my wife, they said she wasn't allowed to tell even my other son or daughter that we were invited to meet the President. They didn't want the press to know, and said the President didn't want the press to know. If it would have leaked out, we would not have had the meeting."
Which is telling. It belies the complaints of those who think the President has somehow politicized the situation regarding those who have died in Iraq.
The President spent 30 minutes with the Mahers. The only other people in the room were a security person, and a representative of their Congressman, Mike Fitzpatrick.
So what is it like to lose a child to war, and sit with this President? William Maher told me.
"When he came in, it was a little tough, especially on my wife. He even said to her, I hope you can get through this. The two of them really hit it off. My wife sat on the sofa with the President, and I sat in a chair, and we spoke about Billy. He asked about him. He told us how he felt, and how he had to go through this day in and day out, but he felt it was very important, as my wife and I do. A lot of people keep saying, 'when are they coming home, and I say, when the job is done.'"
"He explained that he did not want our soldiers to die in vain, and that was important to him, and he said that 'as long as it is on my watch, we are going to be over there to get this resolved', and I am glad he feels that way because even thought we hurt a lot, it makes feel better that we have a purpose there, and I think we do, and that the job will be done."
I asked William Maher if he believed political considerations played any role in his getting the meeting.
"This just happened in February, he was already re-elected, so he didn't have to meet with us. The most powerful man in the universe still thinks of the families after being elected to 2nd term. It meant a lot, he impressed the living daylights out of me. He's a very strong character, very strong person, and explained a lot about his life, explained much of what he went through, and his wife and family, he was very down to earth."
Valerie Mihalek is the person from Congressman Mike Fitzpatrick's office who was in the room. She later told me that she had been witness to what William Maher described.
"It was the most amazing thing to see how compassionate the President was. He just walked in as if he was one of family, and walked right up, and hugged them. Adie was crying. He was wonderful with her. He was getting upset too. They sat on sofa and his attention to them was as if he had known them his entire life. He gave them twice the time allocated, which had been 15 minutes. He never rushed them. They talked about their families. The President tried to lighten the mood by speaking about how he met Laura and asked how Bill met Adie. It was the most personable meeting you could image. No invasion of their privacy. This was a very comforting, relaxing atmosphere, which was really special," Mihalek told me.
I asked the grieving father from Pennsylvania about the grieving mother from California who is now camped out in Texas.
"My heart goes out to her, especially when I see what my wife goes through. You live with this every day. The first year you still think that door is going to open and your son is going to walk through it. She deserves the right to say what she wants to say, thank God you can do that in this country, but do I believe in what she says, no I don't."
"When the President said our son, or any other son would not die in vain, that made me feel real good, because I certainly don't want this thing to end up the way Vietnam did, with American vs. American, and I felt really good he made that statement. The man sticks to his word."
What the Heck said:http://www.timesonline.co.uk/article/0,,11069-1737867,00.html
She admits that he does not agree with the "level of intensity" she has devoted to peace in the past year.
What the Heck said:Yes, many relationships cannot cope with the loss of a child. Especially when one of the parents chooses to ignore the other's grief for their own purpose.
bsnyder said:You're leaving out the Democrats in Congress who voted to authorize the war.
Lebjwb said:That's worth repeating:
"As the Iraqis stand up, we will stand down" is President Bush's exit strategy. But how can the Iraqis the U.S. Army is training defeat an enemy the U.S. Army has itself been unable to defeat in two years?
Anybody...Anybody?
What the Heck said:That was the plan in 2004 after we were already there? Wow, now thats a good plan. After they were beating on the President through all the primaries, saying they knew better, that was their plan? Amazing. As another famous Dis'er says "You can't make this up".
ThAnswr said:Nobody wanted to believe their president was a lying *******.
bsnyder said:From all the available evidence, she and her son had completely opposite political views. That's what I have a problem with.