When we stayed at AoA I had to wait in the general queue at MK, and it took 5 buses before we were able to get on one. Imagine my fury when someone just rocked up at the last minute and drove straight to the front of the queue! I've seen this happen several times when returning to a hotel from a park.
One time, we were in the general queue to get back to AoA from Hollywood Studios and the driver called me forward (even though I was nearly 3 rows back). I had one do-gooder who wouldn't let me past him even though I was being called forward. In the end I shouted something like "For God's sake, just get out of my way!" Until I was safely on, no-one else was going anywhere!
Another time we were at MK having left early because of the Christmas party, and DD and I decided to go to EMH at HS for a last look at the Osborne Lights. I was told to get in the general queue, so I did. It was very busy - probably everyone else had the same idea. We waited for ages and then a bus drew up. Someone then drove straight to the front again, even though I was in the queue. I have a funny feeling the CM at the stop was looking for me because I saw someone come round and peer round. But we'd just rounded the corner and I think she didn't see me. Once they started loading everyone else, that was it. A bus to Wilderness Lodge came in right opposite and DD said, "Let's go there instead." so we did.
And yet another time we finally got to the front to load and he told me to get into position while he dropped the ramp - and another
scooter rocked up to the front. I said quietly to the CM at the front, "I've waited in the queue, and he's just driven up to the front." He replied, "That's okay, I'll load you first." Yeah, great. I went in first, so he naturally got off before me!
Again while staying at AoA, we turned up at the wheelchair queue while the bus was loading from the general queue. I said to OH and DD, "We won't get on this one, but that's okay." I saw the driver close the front door and thought 'that's funny, the bus doesn't look full'. Through the windows I watched as he turfed 3 people off one of the benches and then opened the back door to drop the ramp. I told OH to go and tell him not to, that we'd wait until the next bus. The driver came over to me all concerned and said, "Are you sure, ma'am? I can put you on if you want." "No," I insisted, "we've only just got here; we're more than happy to wait for the next bus." He told me that the last person he'd dealt with that morning had
insisted that she be put on the first bus! I earned a lot of 'Brownie points' that morning! In the end, the bus which was sitting to our left pulled into position the minute the full bus pulled away anyway, so we really didn't have to wait at all.
The lack of a hard and fast 'rule' on this is so frustrating. I'm not surprised no-one seems to know what to do. It just annoys me that having been told in no uncertain terms to get in the main queue, they then don't bat an eyelid when someone just drives to the front of the queue.