horselover
Why yes I would love a glass of wine!
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Well, we are two days out from the release of stress. Everyone is busy with lists of last minute things to do. The lists tend to take each of us in different directions, so none of us really get to see each other much or experience the other in the dilemas we have created for ourselves.
The tension is running high, and it is kind of like being on the ME headed for the Lodge. You know where the bus is going, but it just isn't going fast enough. The excitement is mounting.
Last evening we entertained our relatives from Germany. Our ties are still strong back to the family origins. Gesa and Martin are enjoying the visit. It is Martin's first visit to the United States, and he finds it wonderful. Martin is a Dean of pastors in the Lutherin Church in Germany, taking care of 21 parish es and 30 ministers. He is participating in the service and will offer the prayers for the rings and other blessing in German (of course!). This will be some wedding cerimony, with two pastors marrying the two pastors. Plenty of Reverends to go around. You better get your bulletin on the way in just in case you are confused as to which pastor is which pastor.
I just finished cutting out a life size color picture of my DS's face, glued it to a paint stick, and have hidden it in with my stuff for the wedding. I am having a life long freind of his stand beside me and hold it up in front of him when I read DS's letter from Iraq to the bride and groom. It really is a great letter to his sister and new brother. Pray for me that I can make it through it. We all miss him so.
The bride is so excited, so emotional, so critical, so exasperated, and so needing to finally be connected to her partner in life.
The groom is doing the male thing, you know, pretending that everything is good, calm, under control. I'm watching. . . . .
DiznDi is really a wonderful partner and Mom. She has taken all of the duties and stresses of mother of the bride in stride. Things are all in place at this time. She is a miracle worker, and a lot of fun to be with, too!
I can't imagine having any more time before the wedding to touch base with you all again. Before we all know it, it will be over and the newlywed couple will be on their way the The Lodge. (They have made plans to visit Ranger Stan and join him at his church for worship!)
So now, on with storming the castle . . . . . . . . .
My very best wishes to the newlyweds & to you & DiznyDi!
