We visited either daily, or every other day, and we still had some problems. The big thing is that my DH is a PERFECTONIST, and also doesn't deal well with people. As the house was being built, after about the first 2 weeks, we'd visit the site, and he'd start a list beginning with "You call Rod (our builder) and tell him......." Even if I didn't think the thing he wanted to fix was a big deal, I had to call and complain til it was done! Hardest part of our marriage up to that time! I said I'd never again build a house while married to him!
Some of the "real" problems we had were:
We put a basement under the house. We made the stairs under the ones to the 2nd floor. The requirement for headroom at the basement stairs pushing the other staircase too far out, so we had to turn it into the family room. It really divided the room and made it very hard to put furniture in. In that same family room, they put the fireplace off center, which put the windows off center by close to a foot. No one else noticed it, but it really bugged me!
Our concrete driveway started pitting about 3 months after we moved in. Apparently, it was a defective batch. They had to jackhammer it out and re-pour it. They opened the garage door and the inside was COATED in concrete dust! That's very hard to clean up and it's corrosive! Builder came back and cleaned it eventually.
1 week before moving in, the house was broken into. They did it in broad daylight. Our neighbors even saw them, but they thought people were delivering things! They took the appliances and started to tear out the carpet. We got the bare minimum in to meet code for closing, but we lived without some of our appliances for a couple of weeks.
Best of luck to you, but man am I glad I don't have to do it again!
For those who followed my 11 moves on the other post, this was location number 3 as a married couple. When we transferred to MD, everyone kept saying to build a house so that we could get what we wanted! That's how we ended up with a house so far away from work.