BayouMickey
Green Grinning Gators Come Out To Socialize
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My daughter is one of those people who are allergic to "bubbles". Actually she is allergic to the surfactants that make bubbles. She is 18 now and is just getting this issue under control. She would get red, raw rashes - especially around the inner elbow and the back of the knee. Regular rash cream, etc. don't work. She has been in misery most of her life due to this. One time she even got a bad infection from scratching the area with dirty fingernails (kids!!). Anyway, we have been able to find detergents, soaps, lotions, etc. that she can tolerate (with help from creams and medicine). Although we still need to take precautions like putting a towel (washed in her soap) down when she sits on airplane seats, train seats, car seats, anything with upholstery. All of our furniture and car interiors are leather because of her.
In regards to the bubbles. I don't want to restrict other children from having fun. If someone was blowing bubbles in our vicinity we would either move, or my DD would put her arms/legs in her shirt/pants, etc. as much as possible or we would stand surrounding her to try to protect her as much as possible.
However, I am also in the camp that I don't do things that might impact other people and their enjoyment of the parks. I have taught my kids to walk quietly in hotel hallways (even during day). Don't run and jump and bump other people while walking or in line (unless an area to do this type of thing). etc. Don't play music so loudly that others can hear. (Not really a Disney Park problem). Don't scream and yell. Don't get up from table and run around the restaurant while others are eating.
When my kids were little I brought little coloring books/activity books and crayons to keep the kids occupied while waiting for shows, etc. (Actually my kids still love to color and they are older!!) We generally used touring strategies that minimized waits in lines. So most of the time they could just be patient enough to get through the line. Or we would talk quietly about what we have done so far or what we were going to do. Or look at the park map and pick out what to do next. Etc.
Maggie
Maggie, I totally respect this. You and your daughter are a prime example of the point I'm trying to make. I'm not trying to be insensitive to people with allergies/handicaps etc. I KNOW what they are going through. All I'm saying is people shouldn't expect others to cater to their problems, It's up to the person/parent to take the necessary precautions. I stand by my comment of " consideration can only go so far until it becomes inconsiderate to everyone else". My children don't do the whole bubble thing, they rather play their ds'es lol. But I do see little kids blowing bubbles in line every once in a blue moon. And I don't see them dirtying someone's glasses or trying to send someone to the hospital.. I see a small child beaming and smiling ear to ear over something so simple as a bubble..And in true DIS fashion, many have to demonize that.
