When I was younger - if you did anything bad - you were smacked by your parents. Not for daft things but for major things.
If teachers told you off you were scared and even more so of detention as this needed your parents knowledge and it was so not cool among school peers.
If you did something really bad at school you were caned by the head with the parents signed approval.
I knew of one expulsion and this kid burnt the library down! There was no such thing as exclusion.
When you saw a police man you were nervous even though you'd done nothing wrong. If a policeman did stop you doing something mischievous and told you off you went home so scared your parents would find out that you blabbed as soon as you entered the house - and then got sent to bed!
I was smacked by my father once (for lying - never did it again!) and told off by a policeman once. We were only playing with a torch in the street but an elderely neighbour had got worried we were burglers. (in the 70's burglers used torches!

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There were child abductions but not on the scale of today. Obviously no drugs but alchohol was usually tried around the age of 16. However, this was in the pub with older friends - not in parks or bus stops etc.
We were children for much much longer. I still had a doll when I started high school and that Chirstmas was the first christmas I had doubts about Santa.
Now I've just turned 40 so most of the politicians know what I'm talking about. So........How did it all go so wrong? Why can't they see what it was like and how it is now and do something about it. A naughty child was punished not rewarded and made excuses for.
There are more divorces (again the lawyers gain here) and more unmarried mothers so there are more single parents and I do feel this must surely have an effect on our society.
Its hard work on your own.
I myself have 2 children and they are 4 & 3 and explaining what is right and wrong and keeping them disciplined is a constant job.
If I was a single parent I can honestly say that after dressing, feeding, keeping them occupied and out of harms way, more feeding, dressing and keeping up with their pre school needs - I'd be too knackered to worry about discipline!
So they start playing out in the streets on a night - I could get some washing and ironing done. OK they've started swearing - I'm so tired and harrassed all the time - I would probably let the odd word out myself. They start drinking - I couldn't care less I'm drunk myself I'm so fed up with the kids and my life!
I know this is a little far fetched and I'm not saying all single parents are like this but you can see how it may have an effect.
We have to admit that parenting is the hardest job in the world and by talking away the authority that parents once had, along with the help they got from teachers and police we've left everyone to "get on with it" and we're now paying the consequences.
I bring my children up how I was brought up and this is probably the case for most. When my children start school - if I find out my child has been told off by the teacher - I won't be going in demanding that she "leaves my child alone" I'll be going in to a) to apologise and b) find out what we can do together to help make sure it doesn't happen again.
I AM NOT HAVING A DIG A SINGLE PARENTS - I'm having a dig at the government at how all the help and support we did have has been taken away. This government has been responsible for the death of that old fashioned concept called RESPECT! Get this concept from an early age and you carry it for life!