Break-ups

[goob9954]

What are break-ups for you guys like for you guys. Just yell at me if this isn't a subject. Because sometimes break-ups are sometimes messy

 

[JulielovesDisney]

Break-ups suck. They are always awkward and weird.

 

[GoofysOnlyGirl]

They are different every time.

The first break up was basically "Hey I think we should break up" "okay" and I hung up on him. lol. It was only a week long relationship so I didn't care that much. The second time, I basically cussed the guy out, because we went out for a month, and he did it for no real reason. The third one, we went out for a couple months, he dumped me for another girl. That one was hard to face......and I cried for probably a week thinking I was the ugliest person alive Then the first guy I broke up with, was basically like my first break up. lol. So yeah different every time.

 

[Cinderelli16]

Break ups really suck no matter what. I always end up feeling really weird around the boy,and I'm usually very quiet around them which isn't me at all. But of course I have my reasons of why I break up with someone, and they're good reasons too. I haven't had the greatest relationships in the past, but I've learned from that. I will say I was totally heart broken when my 1st boyfriend broke up with me in 8th grade. But now that I look back on it, I think to myself "WTH was I thinking?" It wasn't even really a relationship, because he never talked to me. :/ But that is the past, and this is now, and I have the most amazing boyfriend.

 

[Em&Em]

They are hard especially when the boy is very sweet, but I feel that it is just not the right thing at the moment. That is what happened to me a few weeks ago.

 

[xox_Violet_xox]

i've never had a break up tbh

like i mean, guys have liked me before, and i've not liked them back, so i've had to kinda let them down, and i've felt so bad because they are such sweeties!

i hope i still dont have a break up, i'd honestly be a mess for a good few weeks!

 

[3mtn-kate]

My first break-up wasn't too bad. It was in like 8th grade so we didn't really know what we were doing anyways. We were way better friends at that point anyways.

My second break-up was really bad. It was 3 days before homecoming this year and he went to homecoming with my best friend then asked her out a week later. They're still dating to this day. That took me forever to get over. But I'm fine now, just a little bitter when I see them together. I get the whole "what could have been" thing that I hate so much.

Oh well, whatcha gonna do??

 

[VolleyballQt07]

Well really, I've only had one "break-up". Me and my current boyfriend were going out for a week. Then our friend was giving us crap for dating and threatened that if he didn't break up with me she'd do bad things. So before talking to me about it he broke up with me. I was heartbroken because I really liked him. But then 3 weeks later he asked me out again after trying to convince our friend it would be ok for us to date. She never agreed but he didn't care about her anymore so he asked again. We've been good ever since. I am really dreading the day though that we split...which I hope never happens.

 

[CrazySteph]

Break-Ups for me, in the past, were usually my decision. and I mean its been sad but I wasn't upest.

sunday should be a very intresting day however

 

[Loves Disney]

The first break-up I experienced was me dumping him...and it was a mess. I broke his heart twice and that hurt me the most. I'd rather be the person being dumped to be honest.

The second break up I was in (granted, I'm talking about relationships that lasted a while) it was a mutual decision that it couldn't work out. We are still good friends

 

[pigletgirl]

Well the time I did break up with my bf, he made out with another girl right in front of me at a party. I was as livid as someone could get. It was really disgusting.

HOWEVER, just last week, he and I met up again, and have decided to be friends again. He wants to date, and I'm not ready to commit.

 

[Axel]

My first break-up sucked hardcore. We'd been dating 9 months. He cheated on me, plain and simple, then got his other girlfriend preggers. He broke up with me and I didn't find out until afterwards. He got hit. Hard. But not by me. By some friends of mine. One of whom became my boyfriend several months later.

My second break-up was after only about a month. She broke up with me and it was a mutual thing, we both knew that we were better off as friends, and that's how we are. She's one of my best friends.

My most recent break-up was the hardest. Mostly because I was the one who called it off. Alex was a great kid and I thought I loved him, but after 8 months I started to notice a lot of things about him that really ticked me off. So, I (being the coward that I am) wrote him a note and tried my best to explain everything. One point being that he was obviously still in love with his ex (they're back together now). I gave it to a mutual friend and just said "make sure Alex gets this" and he did. The kid I gave it to? Possibly the best kid in the world. John has become my "one person" the one you trust above all others (except, perhaps for Erica...but she's basically my sister). He's always been there for me since we've really gotten to know each other.

We're not dating, but if we do and it doesn't work out, that break-up is going to be one of the hardest times in my life.

 

[jbcheerchick93]

when i broke up with my first boyfriend, we both wanted too so it wasnt upsetting or anyhting.


i really dont even want to think about breaking up with my current BF.

 

[Sparx]

i have like a .2 second rebound rate for someone hurting my feelings. so im friends with all of my exes, except the first, and thats cause he wont talk to me.

ive had like six or seven, and all of them broke up with me except the first. we're all friends though, its mostly just a 'hey, shelby, this isnt going to work for me. i love you, but only as a friend.' and ya know, yeah, it hurts, but if you can salvage a friendship, its worth it.

 

[cindys_castle2011]

well me and heath dated for like a month. he was my first real boyfriend, we actually went on dates and such. when we broke up it wasn't a big thing. it was summer and we both just wanted to have fun and didn't really wanna be tied down to one person. but we stayed super close and still hung out. then i started dating Trey earlier this month. he was like my grade school sweet heart until i moved and we thought we would never see each other again. well we did and started talking and hanging out and we started dating but his ex girlfriend kept coming in the picture so i broke up with him, then like two days later took him back. then a couple days ago she came back in and said she wanted another chance, and i saw i couldnt compete with her so i called it off before he got the chance to. we still talk all day everyday and try and see each other as much as possible. he still gets jealous and mad when im with other guys, which is super cute were always fighting but were crazy for each other, and everyone can tell. but anywayss heath called the other night to see if i wanted to come to his house this weekend, so i guess im gonna go and see how that goes. i texted him and little bit afterwards and as it seems we both still have feelings for each other. soo yeah. haha. i've never had a bad break-up. those two boys were my only two real boyfriends that i actually got to see, and go places with. Weird thing is, they both go to the same school, (same one i use to go to, before i got homeschooled.) Different grade though, Heath is a senior and Trey is a sophomore, same football team, and right after me and Trey broke up they got like really close... awkward much? haha.

 

[spidermonkey22]

i have had many breakups but i am in a lovely relationship with my girlfriend for about 4 months now she's indian