boy problems! we've all been there. help!!

[cindys_castle2011]

Ugh. Okay. My boyfriend has been acting totally different these last couple of days!! Theres always girls and all flirting with him. I'm always getting Myspace messages (can you beleive that?? MYSPACE!!) about him cheating on me and all that. He tells me that none of it it true and not to let them get to me. I talk to all his friends and they never say anything bout any other girls. We live like 20 min. apart so I dont go to school with him and i see him only on the weekends. but lately its just not been the same hes always rushing to get off the phone rarely says I love you anymore. and i dont know hes just different. Should I worry. or just wait and see what happens. (wanna know more? PM me!)

 

[pirateprinces_dancer]

ok i would just wait and see if it settles out anytime soon.....i'm not really much help since i've never had a BF but i hope this gets all settled out...

 

[HSMndLKfan92]

Follow your insticts. If you think he's cheating, more likely than not, he probably is.

 

[reminisce]

in my experience, if a guy is acting funny, then theres something hes not telling you. this something can be bad or good. i dont want to freak you out, but it normally means a break-up is in the air, but not always. sometimes, it means they want you and them to be closer..

 

[I'm a Divaaaaa]

I'm going to be blunt about this so honestly, no hard feelings. I read your other thread where you said you haven't even kissed him yet, and you're already saying i love you?!?! This seems almost like a fake relationship as it is. So here it goes, boys have a different hormone level than girls and while he may find affection and something emotionally attatched to you, without kissing him you aren't giving him the physical aspect he needs. Boys at that age, early teen years, are basically scum and all they're looking for is physical contact. It's dawning on the height of their testosterone levels so if someone says he is cheating, he probably is. Follow your instincts, they honestly know best. I would say wait for a boy who can wait for you.