Kim Gillihan
Kluvdisney
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As correctly projected, if you buy more points to take other people it will cost you more money. While we've been lucky on family trips, I've seen enough on family drama over the years to know that those who normally bring drama are drama on steroids where Disney/DVC is involved. Whether it's expecting you to pay more than you are, canceling last minute when you're stuck because "timeshares are free once you own them", bringing others without your knowledge or permission or any one of a number of others issues. I've seen those who were upset that the member wasn't paying for their food and tickets too, I've seen the renter who planned and orchestrated the trip be squeezed out completely, I've seen many expect and demand the master even when not paying, etc. Anyone that often brings drama likely will, anyone that's difficult to get to commit or often changes their mind will, etc. We have 43 people going to HHI this summer and have planned maybe 10 or 11 large trips and we've been lucky but I pay for the accommodations, I plan NOT to control others vacation and I make it clear drama = no future invitations. Our family trips have been our best by far, I'd give up any travel over the family trips if I had to make a choice. But life's too short and I've positioned myself to be able to do so for a controlled cost. If you have no debt ant his is a drop in the bucket and you see it as a blessing to them and to you, by all means consider it, but not in any other situation and not with likely drama.
it is crazy how some people can be!! I will be very careful who I invite, for sure! I think that.. drama = no future invites!! I am in a position to be able to do this, share my dvc on occasion. I am happy that I can help my family do something they would never be able to do otherwise. But, again that would only be occasional, I think I need 300 points for my immediate to stay in 1-2 bedroom ... Wow, 43 people!! What the heck.. you have crazy amounts of points!!