This whole thread makes me sad.....seeing the worst in some people, how selfish some have become. Disney can truly be a magical place, but so many people are ruining it for others. The only reason I shoot for a pre-park ADR is so that I can get a few pics in front of the castle without the sea of people behind us. I make FP's for the rides and meets and are a "must" for my family. People that make reservations just to get to a ride and don't actually eat there? That thought would never even have crossed my mind!! That just seems absurd to me! I have seen too many times my last few visits, how some people are just all out for the fun of THEIR family with no concern for others, and I think that's just horrible. I've had people push us out of the way for a parade spot, I've had people let their children shove their way in front of mine to take a picture or play with something interactive. It's just sad. The magic of Disney happens on its own, we do not need to go out of our way to FORCE it to happen. Everyone's children deserve to have a magical vacation, whether that means just a breakfast with a princess, meeting their favorite character, or experiencing Main Street without all the people. They paid just as much as you.
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I find this a really intriguing post. And something that has always fascinated me about attitudes on these boards about what it means to be a gracious guest at Disney World.
First, I COMPLETELY agree with "sadness" regarding the rudeness I sometimes see at Disney during parades, fireworks, attraction queues... Pushing, obstructing others view, cutting in line. I find these things at best annoying, and at worst dangerous. I've not been to Disney after "Selfie" sticks became popular, and have thankfully since been banned... I can only imagine the mischief that some guests could muster with them. This post is not about these types of boorish behavior. I would hope we can all agree they are unacceptable. (I should note... I have far more often seen acts of kindness and helpfulness. I hope all of us on these boards will help others in the parks that are less experienced, or simply in need of a kind word.)
My interest is in the seemingly common thought that if we follow Disney policies, we are being greedy or immoral in some way. One raging example of this was under the old fastpass system. If your fastpass had a return time of 10am-11am, the Disney policy was to basically ignore the 11am aspect. In other words, after 10am the fastpass was good for the rest of the day (note that this was POLICY, not an oversight). Some people, including me, used this policy to great benefit. Others CHEERED during the transition to fp+ when Disney started enforcing the 11am aspect of the return time, claiming that the "cheaters" were finally getting their just desserts! Similarly, we have "throw away" nights at Camp Wilderness, FP+ on spare non-ticketed Magic Bands, and now skipping breakfast at BOG (while paying the fee) to get an advantage on getting in line.
Frankly, I don't see ANY similarity between the former set of problems, and the latter examples.
An illustrative situation... Disney publishes a "park opening" time every day for each park. Yet, on many days, they actually open the park early. I doubt any of us would wait outside the park for the published opening time, nor consider it greedy or immoral to go in when invited. Yet we are getting an exta 15-30 mins of park time we did not pay for. I presume the reason none of us feel guilty about this is it is so obvious that Disney wants it that way. No one things twice about it, yet the print is JUST as real as the return time on those old paper fast-passes.
I see no difference between this example and the other items I mentioned (The old fastpass window, throw away room nights, extra magic bands, and yes, skipping breakfast at BOG to maybe get on a ride early... I am sure there are plenty more.).
My Question: Do you consider these examples loopholes that Disney has not been smart enough, or for some other reason unable to close? How should we know which ones go too far and become immoral in your eyes? I am not being deliberately obtuse here... Sometimes when I find a clever (in my mind) approach to park touring, I am afraid to be branded greedy/immoral by the Dis-board morality posse.
My simple (I think) attitude:
1) My family and I will be gracious and helpful to other guests in the park.
2) If it is Disney policy, or if Disney is silent on a matter, I will do what is in my own family's best interest, including (years ago) riding Peter Pan hours after the fastpass had, on paper, expired.
Ed