ozvisiter, order whatever you want. I was talking to a server at BB on the 26th about dessert-only, and she said that whatever patrons want to order, that's what they are there to get for you. So if you want dessert-only, just order dessert! You might want to stop them from bringing you the rolls (although they are GOOD rolls) b/c dessert and rolls with butter might be odd to eat together (my son felt differently, as he dipped his roll into his vanilla ice cream, which is all he wanted to eat on his birthday).
The split is done in the kitchen, and each of you will get your own salad! Before our food came our server went on a break and he brought our fill-in server to introduce us. When our food arrived each plate had so much food on it I called her over to ask if he had heard us right, to make sure it was actually a split plate.
She said it was, and that they try to be generous in the kitchen when splitting. She said that with our dish (the portobello mushrooms on couscous) they go by the size of the mushroom caps...since the caps we got were on the smaller side of a portobello, they gave us two each. It would normally only be two on a regular dish! She said that with the size of them on the non-split plate they probably would have put 3...so we got 1 more than we would have without splitting.
Basically, the servers there are very nice, and if you get someone that isn't know that that's just THEIR opinion, and you could go and talk to a manager if they give you attitude about a smaller order.
ozvisiter, this came out wrong when I was trying to tell someone at the parks (he glared at me), but I just want to make sure you know that their mint juleps do not have alcohol in them. The guy I was trying to tell that was getting WAY too excited about the Mint Julep Bar, and gathered his buddies together to go get a bunch of them. I said "they don't have alcohol in them" but I don't think he heard me right, and I think he thought I called him an alcoholic...but really, a non-booze drink really shouldn't inspire the excitement in his party! So just in case you didn't know, they are a virgin drink at
Disneyland. (in Kentucky, not so much, LOL)