Black Friday experiences are, like anything, relative.
Relative to your location, your intentions, and what you're interested in.
I've been doing "BF" since the early 1970s, back when they were called the "Day after Thanksgiving" sales. My Mom was a big DAT buyer, so much that the NY Daily News was brought out after dinner so she could plan her trips.
I've done BF in Chattanooga, Savannah, Orlando, Atlanta and originally, Brooklyn NY. The difference in the experience is as different as the attitudes of the people you meet in all of the different environments.
This year we're doing it in Lawrenceville, GA, my new home north of Atlanta. I have no idea what to expect but I will find out. I do MOST of my shopping online and the rest I do with the attitude that I'm going to have a good time and I do. I've only been disappointed ONE TIME, last year when the TV I wanted in Target sold out right in front of me but they offered me a higher definition BETTER one for a few dollars more.
Don't be turned off by the reports on television. No TV cameras would EVER record the places I go to because I've never seen chaos in any of the places I've been to. They LOOK for them, that is news. Unfortunately it's also some people's ONLY experience with Black Friday.