I have been reading the boards for awhile but I'm still kind of confused. I am taking my ds and his cousin in early Dec. My son will turn 9 while we're there and his cousin turns 10 later in December. Do I pick another day of our trip to use as his cousins birthday? It also seems that I read a lot of reports that sound like they notify every ps, hotel, restaurant etc that they're celebrating a birthday or anniversary. I would hate for the one ps we have on his birthday to be overlooked but I'm also not sure I want the entire 5 days to be the boys birthday. Any suggestions?