First Tip for birthday child I've mad a t-shirt for my son saying on front It's My birthday
on back Today I Am 7. Was a big hit in the park. We did this both in 2003 & 2005. He got extra's from this shirt from cast members such as being brought to participate in a parade, driving jungle cruise ride, CM at park entrance told him to go see her for cake,
Sang happy B-day on train MK and rode in back. Donald left an autograph 5x7 Picture for him in room wishing him a happy birthday. I called Disney booking co. For this favor and had to remind them when i checked in. I usually stay at POR. If you have priority seating for any meals make sure you let them know your celebrating a birthday(for Cupcake at a meal). when you check in for meal check to make sure they have it noted. At some point a CM at any park should ask your child if they have recieved thier birthday phone call if your child hasn't yet they will call a number for their birthday greeting. Their are birthday buttons you can get for free at MK,AK, and Epoct.
With my son the t-shirt worked so much better he got alot more extra's. Front of lines & More. I Am sorry for this long reply. I hope this helps. I've done this twice.