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[pjlla]

Pamela, bless your heart! What a horrible roller coaster ride you have been on this week. Your DH must be a strong guy to have gone through all he has and come out of surgery early today. That was a lot of work. Surely if they thought that what they were doing wasn't sufficient they would have called in the neurosurgeon today. I hope that you can see Deb tomorrow because she is the perfect person to talk to about all the fears with neurological problems.

I'm glad that you can have your daughter go home with someone else tonight. I'm sure that your DH will be heavily sedated all night. I hope that you can go somewhere and be alone and just let yourself go for a bit. Cry and gnash your teeth and just feel bad for your DH, your family and yourself at the horrible situation that you find yourself in now. I'm sure that you are trying to be strong for everyone but that can't go on forever. See if someone will give you a prescription for a sleeping pill. Your problems won't be gone tomorrow but you will be better able to deal with them after you've had a good nights rest.

I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.

Rose, I am keeping your family in my thoughts and prayers until your DS is safely home.

Keeping myself together for the most part, but may have good pity party tonight now that I am alone.

Oh gosh P. That's awful. AT least there was some good with the bad. I hope that what they did took care of the spinal leakage. I am praying hard for that, for your mental strength, and for the best healing possible. No words, just prayers....

Prayers are what is most needed right now, so thanks.

Oh P, I am so sorry. I am sending good wishes your way for the strength you need to get through this really difficult situation and that your DH is not too uncomfortable with everything he has had to go through. Thank you for sharing your story. Selfishly, I have definitely gotten the reminder of what is important in life--health and safety and the ones we love. Please know I am thinking about you and yours.

Yup... sure has been a reminder of all that is important... and to think, I skipped a romantic picnic last week with DH because I was concerned about overeating before weigh-in (although admittedly, we did reschedule it for Saturday)... but it seems so silly now. I'd eat that entire BLOCK of cheese right now if it made DH happy!!

Will be thinking of your DS tonight as I sit here counting the same ceiling tiles and praying. Still expecting him about 1 or 2am??

Evening!

Pamela: It sounds like DH has been blessed with amazing doctors. Glad DD was with you today and also, that she and you have lots of support from others. Please, do keep us updated. DH, you, and your family are always in my thoughts and prayers.

Prayers always welcome!!

Mini-Challenge for Wed., 11/24: Plan if you will have a "splurge" food for your Thanksigiving meal(s), and if so, what it will be.

Mine will probably be a serving of yams. We are not planning to have any desserts.

No mini-challenge on Thanskgiving except to enjoy the day!

Glad to have some fluff to think about.... My usual T.giving splurge is my cousin's onion casserole. Truly my favorite (we only have it at T.giving and Easter). I will miss it this year. I usually fill my plate with that instead of turkey... and I often go back for seconds! Well...that and my aunt's lemon meringue pie... oooo I will SO miss that.

Okay.... while I'm thinking about the foods I will definitely miss this year, my DSIL's butternut squash ravioli (or is it pumpkin??)... in sage butter.... practically illegal it is so good and rich. Not sure if she was planning it for this year, but I was certainly dreaming about it.

I will be grateful for whatever Thursday brings... as long as DH is recovering and the kids are taken care of.

Anyhow, on that note.... just an note to say goodnight. DD is off with her friend, had a nice visit from friend's Mom and DD's swim coach. SO nice to have a diversion for a while and get a big hug from friends. And nice to know that DD will have some time to relax.

I've got my little encampment here in this same waiting area where I've been off and on since Sunday. Trying to make it a bit more comfy tonight than I was a few nights ago. Got two prayer shawls (one that my Mom brought for DH and another I brought from home that my MIL knit for me a few years ago), so I should be snuggly. Doesn't seem as cold in here as it did a few days ago. And DH is right across the hall in PACU... gives a bit of comfort to be geographically close anyhow.

Absolutely starving right now... thank goodness for the 24 hour deli in here... gonna go get a sandwich and drink... maybe even splurge on some Baked Lay's. Also got a nice bag of healthy snacks that DSIL left with me on Sunday, so a few bananas and clementines to nibble on as well. I'll be snug as a bug in a rug for the rest of the evening. Hopefully I will be able to get some decent sleep.

Will talk to you all tomorrow I hope.................P

 

[my3princes]

Evening all....

DH made it through surgery and they even finished early. They were able to do all of the facial fracture repairs, pretty much as anticipated. That's all good news.... but of course, it cannot all be good, right?

They had warned me back on Sunday to watch for fluid leaking from his nose, that it would be spinal fluid and could mean a more serious injury. Didn't seem to have that, so didn't think more about it. Surgeon tells us that when they opened him up they did find significant leakage of spinal fluid... but it had been dripping down his throat (probably accounts for how gurgly and congested he sounded). They also discovered a significant skull fracture that traveled across his forehead back past his temple towards his ear. They repaired it the best they could from their angle. Also found significantly more skull damage than they anticipated. Had to do lots of repairs.... took out lots of bone fragments and replaced it with ??? (can't remember what they called it... some sort of bone replacement). Also had to permanently fill in the sinus in his forehead area... it was too damaged to fix. They took out all of the mucosa and filled the sinus area with a synthetic bone replacement that will harden.

They have made a repair to stop the spinal fluid leak and are reasonably confident that it is fixed, but if not it will mean evaluation by neurosurgery and the possibility of another open surgery on his head. We are, of course, praying hard that the current repair will be sufficient.

He still has a breathing tube and is on a vent right now. They are leaving that in place until at least tomomrrow. Hopefully they will know soon about the fluid leak repair and can make the decision to remove or leave the tube based on that.

We did see him in PACU and is vry sedated. Hard to tell how the facial repairs really look because of the swelling and breathing tubes and bandages... guess we won't worry too much about cosmetic stuff at the moment.

I'm up in the air about what to do tonight myself. DD's friend's Mom and swim coach are coming up for a visit tonight and I asked them to take DD home with them. I'd like her to go visit her friend overnight and get away from this situation which has become our "standard" for now. She was a trooper here with me today and must be feeling stressed and tired, even if she wouldn't admit it. A few hours with friends watching tv and eating junk food would be great.... they don't have school tomorrow, so all is good with that.

I can tell you all honestly, when he told me about the additional skull damage and possible need for further surgery (and neurosurgery at that), I felt like someone kicked my legs out from under me. My ability to put two intelligent thoughts together went right out the window. I could have thrown up on the surgeon's feet. But I held it together for DD's sake, at least.

Thanks once more for the continued prayers.... they are still needed so much! Thanks for being there for me to unload on... I feel like our families have so much to deal with right now, they don't need me whining and complaining. I just need to vent.

Amazing how life can change in the blink of an eye.........P

I was so in your shoes last year at this time. I can totally empathize with you. The unknown, the waiting and worrying, the bad news from the surgeon, We were so there. I don't know what we would have done without the prayers and support of our family, friends and communities. The outpouring of support from people that we didn't even know. I cannot explain how amazing the support felt. You are right, in the blink of an eye everything changes and unfortunately it will never be the same. I will never take things for granted again and I absolutley realize that it isn't about "things", it's about people. I promise to give you a great big hug from all of us tomorrow. Can I bring you anything? Food, Drink, what ever you need. DH and I spent a couple of nights in the PICU with Hunter after his surgery and it was not comfortable to say the least, but we were close in case he needed us. They were able to bring a cot in for one of us. Make sure you ask.

 

[my3princes]

Pamela, I am totally bringing you Thanksgiving dinner. We have a huge family meal and I will make you a plate and bring it to you. Not sure what time I'll get it to you, but you will not be missing dinner.

 

[pjlla]

I was so in your shoes last year at this time. I can totally empathize with you. The unknown, the waiting and worrying, the bad news from the surgeon, We were so there. I don't know what we would have done without the prayers and support of our family, friends and communities. The outpouring of support from people that we didn't even know. I cannot explain how amazing the support felt. You are right, in the blink of an eye everything changes and unfortunately it will never be the same. I will never take things for granted again and I absolutley realize that it isn't about "things", it's about people. I promise to give you a great big hug from all of us tomorrow. Can I bring you anything? Food, Drink, what ever you need. DH and I spent a couple of nights in the PICU with Hunter after his surgery and it was not comfortable to say the least, but we were close in case he needed us. They were able to bring a cot in for one of us. Make sure you ask.

I've made myself a comfy spot with some chairs and a pillow and such. It will certainly make due. Another older woman here has been doing the same... we are "roommates" of a sort! But the new family that showed up better be quiet soon or I'm calling the House Mom on them for breaking curfew!

Pamela, I am totally bringing you Thanksgiving dinner. We have a huge family meal and I will make you a plate and bring it to you. Not sure what time I'll get it to you, but you will not be missing dinner.

If I know for sure that I'll be here on Thursday, I'll definitely take you up on that offer. But I'm hoping that DH will be well enough for me to go home again for a few hours and have a mini-dinner with my parents and kids. I know my Mom went to the store today and I'm sure she has something planned, even if it is just for her and Dad and the kids.

You got my PM with my cell number, right?? .............P

 

[my3princes]

I've made myself a comfy spot with some chairs and a pillow and such. It will certainly make due. Another older woman here has been doing the same... we are "roommates" of a sort! But the new family that showed up better be quiet soon or I'm calling the House Mom on them for breaking curfew!



If I know for sure that I'll be here on Thursday, I'll definitely take you up on that offer. But I'm hoping that DH will be well enough for me to go home again for a few hours and have a mini-dinner with my parents and kids. I know my Mom went to the store today and I'm sure she has something planned, even if it is just for her and Dad and the kids.

You got my PM with my cell number, right?? .............P

I did. I'll call you around 5 tomorrow afternoon to find out where you are.

 

[Rose&Mike]

Yup... sure has been a reminder of all that is important... and to think, I skipped a romantic picnic last week with DH because I was concerned about overeating before weigh-in (although admittedly, we did reschedule it for Saturday)... but it seems so silly now. I'd eat that entire BLOCK of cheese right now if it made DH happy!!

Will be thinking of your DS tonight as I sit here counting the same ceiling tiles and praying. Still expecting him about 1 or 2am??

Will talk to you all tomorrow I hope.................P

Was wondering how you were handling skipping the picnic. I know I am the queen of woulda, shoulda, couldas, so I probably would have been beating myself up. You weren't being silly. You were just dealing with life at the time. I am glad Deb is coming to see you tomorrow.

I thought we would have been getting an occasional update from DS. Finally texted him at 11:30 and they are about an 1 1/2 away. DS was driving and one of his friends texted me back. So hoping he is home around 1:00. I am getting tired! I should be making my grocery list.

Jerry Seinfeld is on Letterman. He's so funny.

 

[mikamah]

Oh, Pamela, my heart goes out to you. I'm sending you prayers and good thoughts the dh is going to be ok. I can only imagine how hard that was for you to hear after the surgery. It's good he is sedated and I'm sure they are keeping him very comfortable, and I pray you have good news in the morning. I'm sure it is such a comfort to have your parents with the kids, and dd's friend to help occupy her a bit tonight. I hope you are taking care of you too. The strength you display in your posts amazes me, and I'm so glad you are able to come here and post and vent, and know we are always here for you to listen, and pray with you. Your sense of humor will also help you through, and don't hesitate to call the house mom on that new family.
Take good care Pamela, and I hope you are catching a few z's right now.


Rose- It's 1:30 and I hope ds is home safe and sound and you've gotten a big hug from him.

I'll catch up with everyone in the am. Good night all.

 

[donac]

Pamela, your dh is still in my prayers. I can't imagine what you are going through.

Rose did ds make it home? My won't be home until 5 or 6 tonight. He has a class until 3 today.

I am out at 12. I need to make alist of what I need at the grocery store. Ds went last night to get some more cream cheese. His card had enough to get a free turkey. Since he didn't need a turkey he handed over his slip and card # and they will donate it to the food pantry. I know I need gravy and maybe some cauliflower. I think I have everything else. I will know tonight and I have both of my sons and dh to run to the store if I need anything.

Have a great day everyone. I need to find some warm clothes. We have a pep rally today and I think it is outside.

 

[flipflopmom]

I got home last night for a few hours.... I felt terrible leaving DH, but he said he was okay with me going and he did sleep mostly through the night. It was nice to be home, snuggled up with my kids, even briefly. And I got a shower and change of clothes and a hug from my parents and the cat. Felt mentally refreshed this morning.

P - I am personally amazed that he can talk??????? Glad you made it home for a bit and were able to relax when you were there. When Daddy was in hospital, going home was futile b/c I was on pins and needles the whole time. I am so glad your parents are able to be there for you and the kids.

Hi everyone. I am finally caught up in all 20 pages. I am almost caught up with the weight I gained from my trip- all but half a pound. It has been freezing over here. Lows in the 30s and highs in the 60s. In California standards, that is cold. Taryn- Im glad things are working well with PC. Having your own site must help out a lot too. Have you tried the gummy multivitamins? I assume they work for adults because on the package it says the dosage for adults. I take the sour gummies

I may have to check for those. Although, it would literally be taking candy from a baby, b/c my kids would be all over them. Congrats on catching up - that's a task in and of itself! Glad you are back!

No fluffiness to her just down to business. Its not what I imagined for kindergarten. I feel like she is somewhat unapproachable and I just get the feeling she doesnt like me. Anyway, I feel like she told me everything he didnt know but really didnt say if he is on target or if he is behind. I thought about emailing her but Im not sure what I am going to do. He has a cold but you know how men are. I dont know how soon the pills are suppose to work but he seems alot more like himself.

Lindsay, I had a conference that I requested yesterday. I thought of you as we sat down, and made sure I said some positive things. I will admit, you've given me a lot to think about as a teacher. I realized that over the years, I have been treated SOOO many times as a glorified babysitter, and often try to stress the academics of K too much to compensate. Every morning, I remind myself that these heathens are someones babies, they are trusting me with them, and I need to remember that I hold what is most precious to them and treat it carefully. I wonder, is she a mom? Age? That makes such a difference w/ K kids. I know until, I had one, I didn't get the message above. And until I had 2, I totally didn't get the stresses of being a parent/homework/life. I have found that the most unapproachable, uncaring type teachers are those w/o kids, or whose kids are grown and have forgotten what it's like to have little ones. ANYWAY, DEFINITELY email her. I love emails. Tell her that after you got home, you were processing what she said, and had some more questions. You understand what needs to be accomplished by June, where he was in October, but where is he now? Is he on target for the end of Nov? Is he behind in any areas you need to work on RIGHT NOW, keeping the June goals in mind and working towards those, but what about at the moment. She may not even realize she didn't hit that mark. If she's nasty in a reply, let me know. I'll give her a K teacher to K teacher smackdown!!!!

So glad DH seems better, other than the cold. I do know how men are. When Brad complains of a cold, I can usually come back with "Now you know how the ladies of the house have been feeling for the last 2 weeks, you'll be better soon, we almost are."

Sorry for the soapbox, and thanks for the opportunity to introspect!

Greetings from the Great White North! The blizzard is gone and it is just very, very cold now and will get colder tonight. It's kind of fun to be housebound, for now, but I imagine by Thursday it may be losing it's charm! For your folks getting the Peppermint Mocha Kahlua -- there is a $10 rebate from Kahlua if you buy two bottles. It's good stuff!

Too bad mom doesn't drink and I can't ask her for money for Kahlua. Although, we are tailgating Saturday.... might be our contribution. That and a chocolate cake - ala pampered chef of course. Feel free to blow that blizzard to SW VA come Sunday night, I'd love to be snowbound for a while.

We did see him in PACU and is vry sedated. Hard to tell how the facial repairs really look because of the swelling and breathing tubes and bandages... guess we won't worry too much about cosmetic stuff at the moment. Thanks once more for the continued prayers.... they are still needed so much! Thanks for being there for me to unload on... I feel like our families have so much to deal with right now, they don't need me whining and complaining. I just need to vent.

P - vent away. We're here. I can PM you my cell if you need to talk, I'm off after 1 today for the weekend. I have cried tears for you this morning through my prayers. Sent our pastor post-op update and asked him to forward to our prayer chain. Hope you and DH feel the comfort from those, soon. AS for the cosmetic, you are absolutely correct. Don't even think about that now. How are the kids dealing?

Selfishly, I have definitely gotten the reminder of what is important in life--health and safety and the ones we love. Please know I am thinking about you and yours.

Exactly. Having the same thoughts here.

Not a good day with eating. I was stressed out, but at least I didn't binge. I am feeling better and hoping for an OP day tomorrow.

YAY for no bingeing! Or however you spell it! Hope you have a restful day today, and find the perfect shoes. You know, Cindy's proof a good pair of shoes can be life changing!

Mini-Challenge for Wed., 11/24: Plan if you will have a "splurge" food for your Thanksigiving meal(s), and if so, what it will be.

Just one? MAN! Stuffing, cranberry salad, and pumpkin pie. Only get those 1time a year, and I will eat them! Yes, the day is about memories and family, and food should not be in that equation, but those 3 items are!

Keeping myself together for the most part, but may have good pity party tonight now that I am alone. Yup... sure has been a reminder of all that is important... and to think, I skipped a romantic picnic last week with DH because I was concerned about overeating before weigh-in (although admittedly, we did reschedule it for Saturday)... but it seems so silly now. I'd eat that entire BLOCK of cheese right now if it made DH happy!! I will be grateful for whatever Thursday brings... as long as DH is recovering and the kids are taken care of. I've got my little encampment here in this same waiting area where I've been off and on since Sunday.

P - don't be afraid to ask for things you might want. I've found that those "house moms" or whatever they are, are really good and want to help. Most we encountered were volunteers with a true heart to serve. Blankets, pillows, the closest free coffee (they had a room for those that would be there for a while with a coffeepot, snack machines, microwaves, etc. that we wouldn't have known about had we not asked). Glad you have some close geography! Don't beat yourself up over the past, you can't change anything now, just concentrate on getting through this moment! So glad you ahve your laptop for diversion, that makes all the difference. Find some silly games, solitaire, anything to give your mind a break!

I promise to give you a great big hug from all of us tomorrow. Can I bring you anything? Food, Drink, what ever you need.

Can I just say this conversation brought me to tears and chills this morning?When I think of what this challenge, which had kind of slowed down, less posters, even sometimes less focus on the weight loss, has meant to us emotionally??? I feel like I have made true lifelong friends, and if any of us ever drop from this challenge, we need to find a way to keep up an alumni, friends group. Thanks to everyone that is keeping on keeping on!

I feel so blessed to have become a part of 2 of these type threads in my Dis career. One was the July 09 crew, we got very close, planned together, had meets on our trips, became facebook friends, created our own little FB group, etc. This was the time we found out Daddy was sick, and his passing, and I can't tell you all the things they did from across the nation when I was posting FB updates from the hospital and the days ensuing.

I thought we would have been getting an occasional update from DS. Finally texted him at 11:30 and they are about an 1 1/2 away. DS was driving and one of his friends texted me back. So hoping he is home around 1:00. I am getting tired! I should be making my grocery list.

I know you are exhausted this morning, and I am guessing that since we didn't have any 1am "he's not here yet" posts, that he made it okay. But if you can carve out a minute, let us know he made it safe adn sound!

The strength you display in your posts amazes me, and I'm so glad you are able to come here and post and vent, and know we are always here for you to listen, and pray with you.

Well said! And what are you doing up at 1:30???????????????

Back in next post.

 

[flipflopmom]

I am out at 12. I need to make alist of what I need at the grocery store. Ds went last night to get some more cream cheese. His card had enough to get a free turkey. Since he didn't need a turkey he handed over his slip and card # and they will donate it to the food pantry.

Your family is such a shining example of giving. Thank you for sharing! Have a great day - we seem to be the early birds on here!

Lisa - I think you hit the nail on the head. DH being off this week doesn't help anything. The stress of the finances, plus underlying issues we always have when he is off, makes for tension. It's hard, b/c when I am off in the summer, I catch some flack. He said I have a ton more time off than he does, true, and I always have lists for him when he is off, true. But I have lists for me when I am off, too. We've had some bad moments regarding this over the past 2 days. I am guilty of thinking that if I were the one off, what I would be accomplishing, and all the stuff he could be doing to help me out. I tend to be self-centered in that thinking, I guess. Thanks for the perspective.

CAM Remember the hug I gave Mickey for you? Give Shadow one for me, and have a cup of cider. Tell them to be ready on Dec. 29, because one stressed out family will be coming and is desperate need of serenity. Hope everything at work calmed down, and you can enjoy your trip!!!!!!!



Personal vent/update:
Last night at home was a disaster - AK "forgot" about a math test, brought home a D for us to sign. She was an emotional wreck, took it out on her sister and dad, with a few "I don't deserve this" to her Daddy, and "I'm mad at you, too, Mom, for having Sophie. My life would have been better. She gets me in trouble all the time." DH is of the "you are 11, she's 3, you know better and should be more mature, and not care which doll, etc. you play with". I've talked w/ him about this, b/c while I agree w/ the maturity issue, I dont' think Sophie should get her way b/c she is the "baby". We usually end up in a huge fight over it, but I didn't have it in me last night. I just told both of them I was staying out of it.

Once again, I fell asleep 2 times on the couch last night. Another kid in my class was out w/ mono yesterday. Kinda confirms the school nurse diagnosis of me. I feel terrible about passing it around, hope my family doesn't get it!


Dh asked last night - tell me next month will be better. I informed him it would be March, at least, before it is better. UNLESS PC turns around a bit for me over the next 2 months forecast. Once behind, it takes a mountain to catch up. I'm applying the ole' WISH motto here - Dead last finish trumps did not finish trumps did not start. I started, I will finish, might be dead last, but it will get better!

Adding to my blessing list - found out that I will receive a stipend for finishing 1/2 my master's degree. It was iffy whether or not we would, due to the system's budget. A little ticked that they are spreading it over 7 months, rather than in 1 lump sum as they had been doing, but I'm not arguing - $150 extra a month will be a huge help!

Also got an email that PC is offering free shipping from orders from my website as part of Cyber Monday. Sent an email re: this this morning, hope that boosts sales!!!


Well, I'm off to be productive. HALF DAY TODAY BABY! ENJOY THANKSGIVING EVE!

Taryn

 

[tigger813]

Good morning,

A gust of wind woke me up at 3:25! I never made it back to sleep. I got up and went to the bathroom and then couldn't get back to sleep. I got up at 4:30 and went and did Bob's 20 minute strength workout and then got DD1 up to do the 3 mile WATP Pilates walk. Going to put on some clothes and head to the wellness center with DD1 for breakfast and my weigh in. I will have a loss I'm happy to report. I'll probably just make this my weigh in day for this week as I have to get up and work on Friday morning.

I do plan on getting in some workouts tomorrow and hopefully we will also play some Wii the next several days. My next weigh in will be on Tuesday since we leave here at 4am on Wednesday for the airport!

Going to try and have two shakes today and the rest will be a meal and a drink!

DD2 fell asleep on the couch at 6:30 last night and slept until about 6 this morning though she was kind of awake at 4:30 when I covered her up again! She's up now. We're watching Full House!

TTFN

 

[mikamah]

Can I just say this conversation brought me to tears and chills this morning?When I think of what this challenge, which had kind of slowed down, less posters, even sometimes less focus on the weight loss, has meant to us emotionally??? I feel like I have made true lifelong friends, and if any of us ever drop from this challenge, we need to find a way to keep up an alumni, friends group. Thanks to everyone that is keeping on keeping on!

I feel so blessed to have become a part of 2 of these type threads in my Dis career. One was the July 09 crew, we got very close, planned together, had meets on our trips, became facebook friends, created our own little FB group, etc. This was the time we found out Daddy was sick, and his passing, and I can't tell you all the things they did from across the nation when I was posting FB updates from the hospital and the days ensuing.

Taryn, I feel the exact same way, and when my mom was sick many times before she was diagnosed with the cancer, and especially that month that she had been diagnosed and when she passed away, coming to the bl thread and posting and getting the emotional support and prayers from the wonderful ladies here that have become true friends, I was so overwhelmed. It truly is what got me through many days. I think when you are with a sick or injured loved one, you are trying to give as much as you can to make it better for them, and to be able to come here and vent and get the love and prayers and let it be about you is such a comfort.

Pamela, my thoughts and prayers are with you, and hope I can be here for you as you have been for me in the past. Love and hugs to you.

Now I'm feeling a little emotional and am going to hug my boy and watch full house with him before school, and am very grateful that I can do that.

I probably won't go back and reply to everyone, but will go forward from here, so I'll ditto what Taryn posted above, and wish everyone a blessed and peaceful day.

 

[Worfiedoodles]

Never made it on yesterday -- I'm going to make up for it today -- a little post now and then hopefully a longer one when I get to work...

Tuesday 11/23 QOTD-- What was your favorite non-disney vacation?

Like so many others, I have different ones for different reasons. But I'm going to say our 10th wedding anniversary cruise. We were on the Explorerer of the Seas, and we sailed the western caribbean for a week. It was incredibly romantic and wonderful, very relaxing, and our everyday level of happiness was so high -- it was just perfect

I was up a little early today. I'm going to be at work by 8, and probably stay until about 11. DS has 10:30 dismissal, and dh is going to pick him up and then pick me up, shoot us by BK so ds can have a treat for lunch, and then home. I plan to spend the afternoon playing games with ds, so probably not much DIS time.

Ok, gotta get moving -- just in case I don't make it back at work -- everyone have a fantabulous day!

Maria

 

[tigger813]

Did my weigh in here and at the wellness center! Down 1.4 since Friday! My next weigh in will be next Tuesday since we leave on Wednesday morning! I'm at a new all time low so I'm thrilled! Only 2.4 from goal here. Not sure if I'll get there with Thanksgiving coming tomorrow! PLanning on giving most of the leftovers to DSIL but will keep some!

Gotta get DD1 off to school in a few and then put the other two quiches in the oven so they will be done. May have that for supper tonight and breakfast tomorrow. Going to then run some errands. I think I'll get the quiches together right now so I can put them in the oven after the bus stop.

TTFN

 

[mikamah]

Wed 11/24 QOTD- Think back on your weight loss/ healthy lifestyle journey. We may not progress as quickly as we like and most of us have our ups and downs, but I know we all have made progress in one way or another. Name one change you have made or seen that you are thankful for today, and how it affects your life now.

I am definitely more active, and am thankful that I am able to get out and run and tomorrow I'm run/walking a 5k with my son. I don't ever remember being active with my parents, and I am so happy that I am able to do this with ds and hopefully he is learning the benefits of being active and he will take this into adulthood.

Have a great wednesday, and for those who might not be on later with the holiday, have wonderful, blessed thanksgiving and safe journeys to all who may be travelling this weekend.

 

[pjlla]

Was wondering how you were handling skipping the picnic. I know I am the queen of woulda, shoulda, couldas, so I probably would have been beating myself up. You weren't being silly. You were just dealing with life at the time. I am glad Deb is coming to see you tomorrow.

I thought we would have been getting an occasional update from DS. Finally texted him at 11:30 and they are about an 1 1/2 away. DS was driving and one of his friends texted me back. So hoping he is home around 1:00. I am getting tired! I should be making my grocery list.

Assuming no news is good news and your DS arrived home safely. Hope he had a big hug for his Momma!!

Not beating myself up too badly, and still okay with NOT having the picnic that day... but wish I had been a bit softer and kinder about my approach to DH.

Oh, Pamela, my heart goes out to you. I'm sending you prayers and good thoughts the dh is going to be ok. I can only imagine how hard that was for you to hear after the surgery. It's good he is sedated and I'm sure they are keeping him very comfortable, and I pray you have good news in the morning. I'm sure it is such a comfort to have your parents with the kids, and dd's friend to help occupy her a bit tonight. I hope you are taking care of you too. The strength you display in your posts amazes me, and I'm so glad you are able to come here and post and vent, and know we are always here for you to listen, and pray with you. Your sense of humor will also help you through, and don't hesitate to call the house mom on that new family.
Take good care Pamela, and I hope you are catching a few z's right now.


Rose- It's 1:30 and I hope ds is home safe and sound and you've gotten a big hug from him.

I'll catch up with everyone in the am. Good night all.

Thanks for the encouragement and kind words and continued prayers. I am taking care of myself I think, but starting to feel like my reserve is running out. I am hoping to get home tonight for a while.... but no definite plans yet.

Pamela, your dh is still in my prayers. I can't imagine what you are going through.

Rose did ds make it home? My won't be home until 5 or 6 tonight. He has a class until 3 today.

I am out at 12. I need to make alist of what I need at the grocery store. Ds went last night to get some more cream cheese. His card had enough to get a free turkey. Since he didn't need a turkey he handed over his slip and card # and they will donate it to the food pantry. I know I need gravy and maybe some cauliflower. I think I have everything else. I will know tonight and I have both of my sons and dh to run to the store if I need anything.

Have a great day everyone. I need to find some warm clothes. We have a pep rally today and I think it is outside.

Nice donation of the turkey.... it is heartwarming to think of the family that would otherwise have gone without probably. I donated my free turkey to the school nurse's food baskets last week.... so I didn't even have a turkey in the freezer for my Mom to pull out. I think she is attempting to put together a small T.giving meal for my kids tomorrow. Really not sure what is going on for tomorrow.

P - I am personally amazed that he can talk??????? Glad you made it home for a bit and were able to relax when you were there. When Daddy was in hospital, going home was futile b/c I was on pins and needles the whole time. I am so glad your parents are able to be there for you and the kids.


P - vent away. We're here. I can PM you my cell if you need to talk, I'm off after 1 today for the weekend. I have cried tears for you this morning through my prayers. Sent our pastor post-op update and asked him to forward to our prayer chain. Hope you and DH feel the comfort from those, soon. AS for the cosmetic, you are absolutely correct. Don't even think about that now. How are the kids dealing?

P - don't be afraid to ask for things you might want. I've found that those "house moms" or whatever they are, are really good and want to help. Most we encountered were volunteers with a true heart to serve. Blankets, pillows, the closest free coffee (they had a room for those that would be there for a while with a coffeepot, snack machines, microwaves, etc. that we wouldn't have known about had we not asked). Glad you have some close geography! Don't beat yourself up over the past, you can't change anything now, just concentrate on getting through this moment! So glad you ahve your laptop for diversion, that makes all the difference. Find some silly games, solitaire, anything to give your mind a break!


Can I just say this conversation brought me to tears and chills this morning?When I think of what this challenge, which had kind of slowed down, less posters, even sometimes less focus on the weight loss, has meant to us emotionally??? I feel like I have made true lifelong friends, and if any of us ever drop from this challenge, we need to find a way to keep up an alumni, friends group. Thanks to everyone that is keeping on keeping on!

I feel so blessed to have become a part of 2 of these type threads in my Dis career. One was the July 09 crew, we got very close, planned together, had meets on our trips, became facebook friends, created our own little FB group, etc. This was the time we found out Daddy was sick, and his passing, and I can't tell you all the things they did from across the nation when I was posting FB updates from the hospital and the days ensuing.

He was able to talk just a bit before the surgery, but it was very garbled and it was just a few words here and there. But he could state his name and DOB for the nurses, so that was good.

I can't say ENOUGH how much I am appreciating the support from all of you here. I know I've told you all before that I DON'T have many close friends in "real" life. Not sure why.... I tend to be a bit of a shy loner, so I'm not out there "making friends"... they either happen or they don't. But having you ALL here for support, encouragement, suggestions, prayers has been my LIFELINE... truly. I am crying as I type this because I KNOW you all can understand.... and I can let go with you all in a way I can't with my family, because I don't want to cause them more anxiety and stress.

My Thanksgiving blessings this year DEFINITELY include this group. You can be sure of that.

Personal vent/update:
Last night at home was a disaster - AK "forgot" about a math test, brought home a D for us to sign. She was an emotional wreck, took it out on her sister and dad, with a few "I don't deserve this" to her Daddy, and "I'm mad at you, too, Mom, for having Sophie. My life would have been better. She gets me in trouble all the time." DH is of the "you are 11, she's 3, you know better and should be more mature, and not care which doll, etc. you play with". I've talked w/ him about this, b/c while I agree w/ the maturity issue, I dont' think Sophie should get her way b/c she is the "baby". We usually end up in a huge fight over it, but I didn't have it in me last night. I just told both of them I was staying out of it.

Once again, I fell asleep 2 times on the couch last night. Another kid in my class was out w/ mono yesterday. Kinda confirms the school nurse diagnosis of me. I feel terrible about passing it around, hope my family doesn't get it!


Dh asked last night - tell me next month will be better. I informed him it would be March, at least, before it is better. UNLESS PC turns around a bit for me over the next 2 months forecast. Once behind, it takes a mountain to catch up. I'm applying the ole' WISH motto here - Dead last finish trumps did not finish trumps did not start. I started, I will finish, might be dead last, but it will get better!

Adding to my blessing list - found out that I will receive a stipend for finishing 1/2 my master's degree. It was iffy whether or not we would, due to the system's budget. A little ticked that they are spreading it over 7 months, rather than in 1 lump sum as they had been doing, but I'm not arguing - $150 extra a month will be a huge help!

Also got an email that PC is offering free shipping from orders from my website as part of Cyber Monday. Sent an email re: this this morning, hope that boosts sales!!!


Well, I'm off to be productive. HALF DAY TODAY BABY! ENJOY THANKSGIVING EVE!

Taryn

Sorry you and DH are going through all of this. I understand about disagreeing about the kids.... we go through a lot of that. How is it that two people who deeply love the same child/children and want the very best for that child, can't always agree on what that "best" might be?

Could you PM me a link to your site? I've been meaning to ask but keep forgetting. Looks like most of my holiday shopping will be online this year and your site is a good place to start!!

Taryn, I feel the exact same way, and when my mom was sick many times before she was diagnosed with the cancer, and especially that month that she had been diagnosed and when she passed away, coming to the bl thread and posting and getting the emotional support and prayers from the wonderful ladies here that have become true friends, I was so overwhelmed. It truly is what got me through many days. I think when you are with a sick or injured loved one, you are trying to give as much as you can to make it better for them, and to be able to come here and vent and get the love and prayers and let it be about you is such a comfort.

Pamela, my thoughts and prayers are with you, and hope I can be here for you as you have been for me in the past. Love and hugs to you.

Now I'm feeling a little emotional and am going to hug my boy and watch full house with him before school, and am very grateful that I can do that.

I probably won't go back and reply to everyone, but will go forward from here, so I'll ditto what Taryn posted above, and wish everyone a blessed and peaceful day.

Hug Michael extra for me. As much as I wish my kids could stay away from here, I'm dying to see my son today. I'm gonna squeeze him until he begs me to stop!

Did my weigh in here and at the wellness center! Down 1.4 since Friday! My next weigh in will be next Tuesday since we leave on Wednesday morning! I'm at a new all time low so I'm thrilled! Only 2.4 from goal here. Not sure if I'll get there with Thanksgiving coming tomorrow! PLanning on giving most of the leftovers to DSIL but will keep some!

Gotta get DD1 off to school in a few and then put the other two quiches in the oven so they will be done. May have that for supper tonight and breakfast tomorrow. Going to then run some errands. I think I'll get the quiches together right now so I can put them in the oven after the bus stop.

TTFN

I am so pleased that you hit a new all-time low!! Especially right before your trip. And being SO close to goal is amazing!! You are doing great.

ooooh... BE RIGHT BACK!

Wed 11/24 QOTD- Think back on your weight loss/ healthy lifestyle journey. We may not progress as quickly as we like and most of us have our ups and downs, but I know we all have made progress in one way or another. Name one change you have made or seen that you are thankful for today, and how it affects your life now.

I am definitely more active, and am thankful that I am able to get out and run and tomorrow I'm run/walking a 5k with my son. I don't ever remember being active with my parents, and I am so happy that I am able to do this with ds and hopefully he is learning the benefits of being active and he will take this into adulthood.

Have a great wednesday, and for those who might not be on later with the holiday, have wonderful, blessed thanksgiving and safe journeys to all who may be travelling this weekend.

I agree wth the safe travels to EVERYONE!! The roads will be crazy busy today... take it slow and steady!

Will answer the QOTD later.

Sorry I had to run, but someone FINALLY came to find me and bring me in to see DH!!

He had an okay night. Had some trouble with his oxygen sats dropping due to lung secretions that were blocking the breathing tube. Apparently they had to suction him a few times through his breathing tube... I'm sure that wasn't pretty. I hope that wasn't the alarms I heard during the night. I'll assume not.

Just had a chest xray that is clear, so good that no pneumonia is setting in. Feet are a bit puffy, but hands seem okay and face isn't overly puffy. Won't hear about breathing tube removal for a while now I think. They can't risk any more secretions because he won't be able to cough them up and out effectively with his jaw wired up. Plus it would be extremely difficult to re-tube him emergently with his jaw wired shut and would end up with a trach if he had troubles after the tube is removed. Better safe than sorry and leave it in for now is the plan.

Good news is that he seems to have a really sweet nurse now. She chatted with me for about 20 minutes and ASSURED me that they won't let me go 14 hours without any news again! She actually showed someone my picture (I brought in a family picture for the docs to use to reconstruct his face) and she was searching for me.... I think she found me cause of the hair cause the photo was about 70 pounds ago!!

I think I was teary above when posting earlier because I felt so alone and out of the loop! I feel better now that I've shared with you all and gotten some more information! I've already updated most of the family via txt and am going now to post a quick update on FB.

Happy Thanksgiving to ALL of my dearest friends here! Please enjoy your day with friends, family, and treats (and indulge just a bit.... life is short!) Please hug your loved ones a little longer for me...............P

 

[lisah0711]

Good morning all!

Rose, Kathy, Tracey, Maria, Taryn and Dona, interesting how everyone was up early this morning.

Pamela, I am thinking of you and hoping you had a restful night.

Deb, you are an angel to help pjlla.

Taryn, little sisters can be the bane of a big sister's life at times -- can you tell I am the big sister? It's good that you stay out of it and let them work it out. DS (who is also 11) has pulled a couple of D's and even a couple of zeroes as he is adjusting to life in middle school -- I figure it's time for him to figure this stuff out now as opposed to doing so in high school -- but it sure is hard to watch him stumble. I hope that you can all get some rest and have some fun family time together this week-end.

Wed 11/24 QOTD- Think back on your weight loss/ healthy lifestyle journey. We may not progress as quickly as we like and most of us have our ups and downs, but I know we all have made progress in one way or another. Name one change you have made or seen that you are thankful for today, and how it affects your life now.

Like Kathy I am thankful that I am more active. It has helped me to be stronger, more able to cope with things and feel better about myself.

And I would be remiss if I did not say how thankful I am for each and every one of you! I know that I would not be ending the year on a high note if it wasn't for all the help and support we get here. Have a wonderful Thanksgiving all!

 

[Rose&Mike]

Good morning. DS got home around 1:30. We stayed up until 2:30 and our puppies woke up up at 7:45. When I get done here I am going to put some running clothes on and go down and walk on the treadmill for a few minutes. I'd like to get 8000 steps today. Mike and Tom went to the eye doctor. Lucky for me DS brought home an entire suitcase of laundry, so my whites aren't lonely in the wash this morning. In his defense he did say he would do his laundry, he was just trying to save money by not doing it at school.

I love, love, love having him here. But I can tell we are going to have some tough conversations over the next month or so. And I want to be one of those parents who just sticks her head in the sand and ignores things, but I know that is not my job. We don't really tell him what he needs to do anymore, but we do tell him what we think about things, and he really doesn't like it when we disagree with him. That's a good thing, I guess, because it means he is listening to us and I think respects our opinion. It's hard for me because by this age I had almost nothing to do with my parents anymore, and Mike's Dad had already died and his Mom was in the beginning stages of alzheimer's though they didn't know that yet. So neither one of us has a very good role model for how to deal with your young adult children. Anyhow, sorry a little off topic.

I am going to make my grocery list after I walk. Whole foods has a vegetarian version of jello so I am going to be able to make DS's pretzel salad. We also need to do some shopping for DS. He came home without a sweatshirt or a coat--he said it was 79 there yesterday and he just didn't think about it.

Dona--enjoy your boys.

P--thinking of you.

I'll try to check back in later today if I get a minute.

Taryn--thanks for mentioning the free shipping. Monday right?

 

[SettinSail]

Boy, lots going on here since yesterday morning! Lots to respond too!

I have been super busy this week and it's been a good contrast to last week when I got mopey. I think I have adjusted OK to the cold weather and now have it in my head this is how it's gonna be until March or April. The sky is pure white most every day, toally filled with clouds waiting for it to snow or rain. It takes some getting used to. You feel like going back to bed!

Got the turkey for my International Women's Club yesterday and went over to the ladies house who is hosting and we walked through the set up and lay out of everything. I think everything is falling into place for it. We also have another Thanksgiving luncheon on Saturday with a big group and I just have to bring a dish to that.

I did my 30 minute jog yesterday even though VERY cold and went to yoga this morning. Hope to get on the elliptical before the day is over. Still haven't been able to shake the 2 pounds I gained over the weekend. No idea what will be for supper tonight. I just finished watching BL from last night, great show!!!

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Wow, lots I want to say to you. Must be the VA/NC connection.

1. I have the same first name as NC QB - my middle name is Jo. Can you get more Southern? Anyway, my family has called my TJ since birth! I'm Aunt TJ, my bros call me TJ, Daddy ALWAYS called my TJ, church people that don't actually say Taryn Jo call me TJ. LOL....

2. Did a quick google search, and the Microsoft store has the kinect +2 games online for $200.

3. What product do you use? I think my poor head is actually trying to grow some new hair in, because it really looks best in a low side pony. I love it, but I have a 2 inch fine mohawk at the part.

4. Things will be tight for a while..... We're in the mire. It seems like once you get behind, it's so hard to fight out. You're always catching up. Honestly, I might could have really gotten very close with the great month I had for PC, but Christmas will take a lot of that. And that's with keeping it very little.

Thanks so much for the Microsoft store tip! I ordered one last night and, at checkout, it actually let me remove the extra game so I only paid
$149 plus tax

I had a good friend in college named Tammy Jo, how Southern is that??

The product that I use is called La Biosthetique Transformer Shape. I am not sure if it's sold in the US, I got mine from the hairdresser, it was not expensive. I also like Systeme Biolage shampoo & conditioner and Morrocan Oil Treatment for hair (expensive! but a little goes a long way)
I've also heard good things about Nioxin products and Tounicia.
I hear ya about the 2 inch mohawk at the part

Another book ahead, sorry.

1. Work - frustrated! Principal is overwhelmed, won't listen to anyone. I've mentioned new construction, the doors are WAYYY too heavy. She's insisting our kids use that as fire exit, but the doors will close when the alarm goes off. They can't open them, we can't stand and hold them, someone's going to get hurt, and she says "they're just going to have to deal."

1b. Parent was considering med. for her son. Borderline if he needs it at this point, IMHO. Not affecting grades, but he does stay in trouble, misses "good behavior" rewards. She asked for the county psychologist to come watch him. Which means she was watching me. She sat in my room for over an hour, he was an . Told her I have NO idea what was up. Got an email an hour later from the parent saying she started meds w/ him Fri. night. At least the psychologist validated my opinion about the heathens I teach and my teaching.

2. Finances - 2 people cancelled PC shows yesterday. Really got me down. Then DH really wants to go to ACC championship that VT is playing in. Tix are only $25, which is cheap for VT fb. Well, I told him that he knew the finances, I wouldn't go, but if he wanted to go w/ friends take off. He got upset again about it all. Decided not to go. Did not lead to a pleasant evening. I am trying everything possible to get us back on the right track, but it's feeling a little "all in vain" this week. Feeling the weight of the world again.

3. Health - during the time I wasn't posting much, was having issues with running a fever, feeling really bad, sore throat, swollen glands. I'm still really tired, talked to school nurse. She said "do you think you had mono?" DUH. I always get mono when I am stressed, run down, etc. Turns out, several kids I am in contact w/ a lot had it, and now 2 of my students do. That makes me feel a bit better, to have a probable cause. Came home and slept for an hour, took another 30 minute nap after dinner, and still slept like a log last night.

4. Diet - seeing some bad habits creep back in. Gotta get with it. Really want to run, kinda, but I really don't have the energy after work, and have to have my mornings to work on classwork/schoolwork/PC stuff.

5. THANKS IF YOU MADE IT THROUGH! Have a great Tuesday!
Taryn

for all the above! I will show my Southern side and say "Lordy Mercy"
you have a lot going on!! Good to see you are getting more rest

Tuesday 11/23 QOTD-- What was your favorite non-disney vacation?

We've had lots of fun family beach trips and we started a tradition of attending a MLB game once a year. (had to suspend that while we are here,
obviously) The year we went to see the San Diego Padres really stands out in my mind. Beautiful city, lots to do in the area, we saw 2 games in beautiful Petco Park, our hotel was connected to the ball park with a walkway, etc. etc. etc.

Shawn- I hear ya on the why did I pull out all these ornament/decorations, but once they're all out, I love that my house is all decorated. When I really regret is in january when I have to pack them back up and drag them down cellar. Good luck finding the game system at the best price. I want to buy a laptop and walmart has one for 349 now, and I know I won't get out friday am to fight the crowd for the 199 one, so think I might just get it now. I don't know much about them, and it's only 2 gb of memory, but I only want it for goofing around online and dis-ing, so I think it might be fine. I was hoping to talk to a guy at work yesterday who is very tech-savvy, but it was crazy and i never got the chance.

Yes, I do hate packing them all back up even worse! Have not made any progress on decorating since Monday but tomorrow looks like I will have more
time. Do bad Deb can't come and whip them all out for me and then clean up and make our supper tonight.

Can you just buy that laptop online from WM? I saw that Best Buy has a great special for a laptop as well, could order from them online?
Good luck getting what you want!

Good thing I did my last grocery run yesterday. We are having a blizzard here. We get snow or wind but not the two together so it is quite unusual. Later we will have subzero temperatures tonight and tomorrow -- it is 7 degree outside now and will be about 10 below tonight.

Shawn, I'm amazed at all the ornaments that you have and that you brought them with you! I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you on that 25 pound clippie!

Enjoy being snowbound for awhile

It's funny what ended up over here with us and what did not. We made some mistakes and we think the movers made some mistakes too. We did request all the Christmas stuff be packed up and sent here. Didn't think to exclude the outside lights so now they are here too. And, taking up precious storage space. DH insisted no room for the piano so we didn't bring it. Found out there's plenty of room for the piano here! It's not here but my metronome is None of our ba-jillion plastic sleds are here, we don't know what happened to those. I could go on and on...............

Hi everyone. I am finally caught up in all 20 pages. I am almost caught up with the weight I gained from my trip- all but half a pound. It has been freezing over here. Lows in the 30s and highs in the 60s. In California standards, that is cold. It has taken a toll on my motivation to exercise, but I will keep going and do it. I am looking foward to thanksgiving. I especially like leftovers. Liberty Tree Tavern from WDW has tainted me. They serve honey butter, so this year I insist on making it. I usually dont like butter, but this was soooooo good. That will be my treat for thanksgiving. That and maybe flan...mmmm...

Im happy to be back. Reading what everyone is up to, their successes and struggles, really helps me move along too. I have been really struggling since getting back from my trip, but I think Im ready to move on.

Welcome back !!! for losing the vacation weight and getting back in the groove

Hey Taryn. I honestly dont think it was so much the time limit, and expectations that got me it was just how she presented everything. She does a great job with the kids but from the start my dh and I didnt really care for her personality. No fluffiness to her just down to business. Its not what I imagined for kindergarten. I feel like she is somewhat unapproachable and I just get the feeling she doesnt like me. Anyway, I feel like she told me everything he didnt know but really didnt say if he is on target or if he is behind. I know what he still has to learn and work on but we have until june. So where is he now??? I thought about emailing her but Im not sure what I am going to do. I know there are time restraints but to set a kitchen timer and once it goes off say ok well thats all the time we have so I cant show you anything else...I just thought it was rude. My dh and I didnt really say anything the whole time so it wasnt like we took up all the time talking.



We had a blast and did things I would never do again. Yes that involved beads. Remember I was 21....

That's too bad about the K teacher. I would definitely request another conference and if you are still uncomfortable after that I would approach the Principal. You need to know what is going on and you need to feel good about your son's education. Think of how many hours he is spending in that classroom. You deserve more than 10 minutes. I guess we were lucky and made to to 5th grade before we had a teacher we didn't like. We were so close to all the previous teachers they were like family! The 5th grade teacher was 25 years old and had no children, like Tayrn said. It was a good thing we had her to break the pattern because in the 3 years since 5th grade we've had LOTS of teachers we don't like!

Thank goodness I was never in New Orleans when I was that age - I would have been right there with you! Are you on a GGW video somewhere ??

Evening all....

DH made it through surgery and they even finished early. They were able to do all of the facial fracture repairs, pretty much as anticipated. That's all good news.... but of course, it cannot all be good, right?

Amazing how life can change in the blink of an eye.........P

Pamela, glad the facial fracture repairs went well and for the not as good news. It is amazing what the human body can do and how it can heal and repair itself. This is a lot for you to go through. I am so glad you've set up a small comfortable area and have your lap top to distract you from the worries at hand. Thank you so much for taking the time to update us. It helps to know specifically what to pray for and what is going on for that day.
Please keep the detailed updates coming when and if you have time. Day by day it will get better

I am out at 12. I need to make alist of what I need at the grocery store. Ds went last night to get some more cream cheese. His card had enough to get a free turkey. Since he didn't need a turkey he handed over his slip and card # and they will donate it to the food pantry.

That is so awesome

Also got an email that PC is offering free shipping from orders from my website as part of Cyber Monday. Sent an email re: this this morning, hope that boosts sales!!!


Taryn

This is great news - I'm glad I haven't placed my order yet
Do you have to place the order on CM? If so, I'll wait until then

Did my weigh in here and at the wellness center! Down 1.4 since Friday! My next weigh in will be next Tuesday since we leave on Wednesday morning! I'm at a new all time low so I'm thrilled! Only 2.4 from goal here. Not sure if I'll get there with Thanksgiving coming tomorrow! PLanning on giving most of the leftovers to DSIL but will keep some!

Gotta get DD1 off to school in a few and then put the other two quiches in the oven so they will be done. May have that for supper tonight and breakfast tomorrow. Going to then run some errands. I think I'll get the quiches together right now so I can put them in the oven after the bus stop.

for a new all-time low!!! Hope DD is feeling better!

Wed 11/24 QOTD- Think back on your weight loss/ healthy lifestyle journey. We may not progress as quickly as we like and most of us have our ups and downs, but I know we all have made progress in one way or another. Name one change you have made or seen that you are thankful for today, and how it affects your life now.

Today, I am also thankful that I have so much more energy now after losing 23 pounds. I don't tire as easily when we are travelling or out walking around and I can keep up with my family much better. I can go shopping for several hours at a time. I can do almost all the moves in my Yoga class. I can jog for 30 minutes!

to everyone I missed - have a great day!
Shawn

 

[mommyof2Pirates]

DH made it through surgery and they even finished early. They were able to do all of the facial fracture repairs, pretty much as anticipated. That's all good news.... but of course, it cannot all be good, right?

Oh Pam I am so sorry dh, you, and your family are having to go through all this. I have you all in my continued prayers. Im so glad you have so much support to get you through this.

Mini-Challenge for Wed., 11/24: Plan if you will have a "splurge" food for your Thanksigiving meal(s), and if so, what it will be.

I will splurge on filling. No dessert for me, Im not a pie lover so it wont be hard. I usually have another scoop of filling when everyone else is eating the pumpkin pie.

Anyhow, on that note.... just an note to say goodnight. DD is off with her friend, had a nice visit from friend's Mom and DD's swim coach. SO nice to have a diversion for a while and get a big hug from friends. And nice to know that DD will have some time to relax.

Glad DD is spending sometime with a friend and that you had a nice visit. I hope you slept well.

Lindsay, I had a conference that I requested yesterday. I thought of you as we sat down, and made sure I said some positive things. I will admit, you've given me a lot to think about as a teacher. I realized that over the years, I have been treated SOOO many times as a glorified babysitter, and often try to stress the academics of K too much to compensate. Every morning, I remind myself that these heathens are someones babies, they are trusting me with them, and I need to remember that I hold what is most precious to them and treat it carefully. I wonder, is she a mom? Age? That makes such a difference w/ K kids. I know until, I had one, I didn't get the message above. And until I had 2, I totally didn't get the stresses of being a parent/homework/life. I have found that the most unapproachable, uncaring type teachers are those w/o kids, or whose kids are grown and have forgotten what it's like to have little ones. ANYWAY, DEFINITELY email her. I love emails. Tell her that after you got home, you were processing what she said, and had some more questions. You understand what needs to be accomplished by June, where he was in October, but where is he now? Is he on target for the end of Nov? Is he behind in any areas you need to work on RIGHT NOW, keeping the June goals in mind and working towards those, but what about at the moment. She may not even realize she didn't hit that mark. If she's nasty in a reply, let me know. I'll give her a K teacher to K teacher smackdown!!!!

I felt that way working in a peds office too. The years before I had kids I would get annoyed with all the dumb questions people would ask....Not that I ever made them feel that way. Once I became a mom....I so got it and probably asked the same dumb questions myself. Im glad it helped you to reflect on yourself too. After you get in a routine for awhile sometimes little reminders are helpful. The teacher most likely will retire either after this year or next and her kids are grown adults- no grandkids. So I guess I can understand. I think I will email her just to see if she can tell me where he is currently and if there is anything he is behind on so I can focus on those areas first. Thanks so much for the help. and if it doesnt work I will take you up on the smack down.

HALF DAY TODAY BABY! ENJOY THANKSGIVING EVE!

Taryn I hope you have a better day today. I hope AK is feeling better emotionally too. I remember around that age telling my parents I would have rather been adopted. I was an only child so I didnt have a sibling to blame. She will get through it, I think its all part of growing up...and being a girl. Hormones are probably starting to play a part.

Wed 11/24 QOTD- Think back on your weight loss/ healthy lifestyle journey. We may not progress as quickly as we like and most of us have our ups and downs, but I know we all have made progress in one way or another. Name one change you have made or seen that you are thankful for today, and how it affects your life now.

I think my biggest change I made was just thinking about what I was eating and being able to control myself. The change i have seen physically is that I feel stronger, I can bend over without feeling like I am going to suffocate or vomit, my clothes fit and when I try on clothes I like everything I try on where before I couldnt find anything that looked right. Mentally I am happier!!!

Good news is that he seems to have a really sweet nurse now. She chatted with me for about 20 minutes and ASSURED me that they won't let me go 14 hours without any news again! She actually showed someone my picture (I brought in a family picture for the docs to use to reconstruct his face) and she was searching for me.... I think she found me cause of the hair cause the photo was about 70 pounds ago!!

It makes all the difference to have someone nice and informative there with him. Im so glad you have a great nurse there for him. Let your feelings out even if its when your by yourself. Dont hold it in that will only make it worse. Im glad we are all here for you to talk to. Continue to vent as needed. You are such a strong women...amazing wife, and mother!!!!!!

I love, love, love having him here. But I can tell we are going to have some tough conversations over the next month or so. And I want to be one of those parents who just sticks her head in the sand and ignores things, but I know that is not my job. We don't really tell him what he needs to do anymore, but we do tell him what we think about things, and he really doesn't like it when we disagree with him. That's a good thing, I guess, because it means he is listening to us and I think respects our opinion. It's hard for me because by this age I had almost nothing to do with my parents anymore, and Mike's Dad had already died and his Mom was in the beginning stages of alzheimer's though they didn't know that yet. So neither one of us has a very good role model for how to deal with your young adult children. Anyhow, sorry a little off topic.

Glad Ds made it home safe. Enjoy your time together and I think you both are doing an amazing job. My parents had/have a similar way of approaching things. They are supportive but let me know their opinions about my thoughts or decisions. Even if its not what I wanted to hear. Just dont ever tell him I told you so if his choice fails. He will already know that. Just speaking from experience. Have a great day and the pretzel salad sounds yummy. I had that for the first time a few months ago.

Thank goodness I was never in New Orleans when I was that age - I would have been right there with you! Are you on a GGW video somewhere ??

I hope not. I didnt sign any papers. My friend and I thought about it the next day...after we became sober and we said there were probably a bunch of pictures out there with our chests showing. I can only hope that while holding up my shirt it covered my face. That was when I was young and very thin and now when I think of it I am mortified. Now we watch cops and they sometime do mardi gras shows and girls get arrested for doing that. I was surprised and my dh was like well what do you think you cant do that its illegal. Gosh I was so naive.


Well today is going to drag. Our office is slow. I dont feel like being here. I will send some staff home early and Im sure they will be happy. We have to keep the office open until 5pm though. I am so glad my dh seems to be feeling better both physically and mentally. He even said he slept really good last night. I cant wait to see my boys...I miss them! Not sure how I am going to do when I go to the princess and am away for 4 nights. Hopefully I will have enough other stuff to keep my mind occupied.

Take care!