Hmm...best is such a subjective term. When we travel with a herd of hungry teens then we stay at Embassy Suites Anaheim North. It is a few miles from
Disneyland, but it has its very own dedicated shuttle and a huge, all you can eat, hot, made to order breakfast.
When you have four teen boys who NEED a big breakfast, and who cannot be filled up with a few danish and juice, this is a lifesaver. The hotel also has a very nice indoor pool, so if you want to be able to watch the kids swim and stay inside, or be insured a swim/hot tub option during inclement weather, then this is a great place. The cost here is usually much less than the Embassy Suites South, which is closer to Disneyland. They also have free drinks in the evening and free snacks as well as very inexpensive pizza.
My husband and I adore Candy Cane Inn. We like the expanded continental breakfast, the beautiful rooms, lovely floral grounds, and cobblestone parking yard. It literally adjoins the California Adventure Property. There are no hotels, on that side of the street on the walk to and from Disneyland, and it is always uncrowded, but very safe. The beds are very comfortable and the feeling very magical. They also have a free shuttle.
Yet, the rooms are rather small, and there is not much room for storage. The standard rooms can only fit four, snuggly. The deluxe rooms can fit five, with a roll out, snuggly. When I called and asked about connecting rooms, I was told they only had those for deluxe rooms. By the time I pay for two deluxe rooms to accomodate our family, I could have easily paid for a room at Disneyland Hotel.
Hojo has a great pool/water play area for kids. The rooms are nice, and most of them have very comfortable bedding. The heavenly bedding isn't in all the rooms though. Yet, their "standard" bedding is still very comfortable. It is a bit of a walk from the entrance, but it is directly across from the park and well within walking distance. There is no included breakfast but they are very close to reasonably priced restaurants.
For our next trip we will be heading to HOJO's. We need more space than Candy Cane Inn provides, but we won't have all of our teenagers friends along, so we won't be staying at Embassy Suites. Since it is just the three kids, we will stay in the Family Suites, at Entertainment Rate of $99 a night. We will have two rooms, two bathrooms, bunk beds, a fold out couch, a KING sized bed for Mom and Dad as well as a DOOR between the two rooms, so Mom and Dad can have a little privacy.
For this trip HOJO is the best option. If I were traveling alone with the Baby then I would stay at a hotel directly across the street. Several of those hotels are actually closer than Disneyland Hotel or Paradise Pier to the front gates.
If I was on a REALLY tight budget, then the best hotel would be the one that I could stay at for the lowest out of pocket expense that kept me safe & let me sleep and shower.
In general I would say, if you are looking for a hotel, then telling us when you are going to be there, how many are in your group, the ages of the group, and the ammenities you are seeking will elicit a much more helpful recommendation.
I hope that helps.