I would very highly recommend the Seafood Buffet at Cape May Cafe. DH and I went last November with another couple and it was our favorite meal of the trip. When we were there, there were 4 seafood entrees, as well as ribs, steak, chicken, etc. I think we all tried a bit of everything. All of the seafood was steamed/grilled, not fried. The salads and sides were excellent, and I would go back again just for the desserts (especially the Oreo bon bons). There was an amazing amount of choices here - nobody left disappointed or hungry.
It is definitely on our list for the next trip!!!