Dinky: I have the same question. We are planning a trip around Christmas and plan to take a "break" from the parks and enjoy the holiday decorations at some of the resorts. Whispering Canyon is fun, especially for the kids (table service). A real 'rootin-tootin experience'! Wilderness Lodge is always beautiful. I have heard (but have never been personally) that the value resorts have great counter-service (burgers, pizza) reasonably priced. I also read from a recent poster that Coronado Springs had good salads, sandwiches, etc....
I'll tag-along with you for the ride, and hopefully you'll get some responses from more experienced Dis'ers.