(Bartering is actually a trading system. Bargining is deciding on the price)
Oh, my Dad was a wonderful "haggler". He loved the game of it too. (I miss him!)
He taught me that on most things (think highend clothes, jewelry, art, etc) in Mexico is marked way up just for the purpose of haggling. He would'nt "nickle and dime" over T-shirts, small token items unless he was buying several.
For a high-ticket item...lets say a beautiful FANCY inlade silver bracelet he bought my Mom. Was listed for 150.00. Dad would offer 60-50% of the asking price. So, he would say "How 'bout $70 cash? The salesperson might hem and haw and Dad would be serious, not goofy or overfreindly. His attitude is that he will get this kind of bracelet SOMEWHERE, so he might as well spend his money there. You can do this when you are shopping in areas with a lot of the same thing. If the person said no, Dad did'nt get offended. Either the clerk would offer another price...usually a 10-15% discount. So, lets say he says....No, how about 135.00
It seemed like Dad had a guideline of getting at least 30-40% off the asking price. So, after this up and down process, it might look something like this....
135.00? No...how about 90?
90? No, too low....100.00 No more.
Well, if Dad did'nt get in the range he wanted...he might go for an "add on".
100.00 US cash, plus that silver chain for my daughter. (I scored a lot of jewelry as a teenager this way-LOL
So, for 170.00 in retail cost...Dad would pay 100.00
For lower priced items...lets say T-shirts. He would sometimes bargin...buy 3...get one free? Or, buy four and get a hat, bag, etc?
Above all, I am always polite and respectful. I NEVER act like I am above any salesclerk or humble street vendor.
Part of that is to always be grateful for the potential to haggle. I use the words please and thank you.
If it is not in my range..or not something I really want. I will be polite and say..."No thank you, then. I was looking for a better price." That way they know your intentions! Many vendors will think that it is better to make a 30% profit with you than giving the business to the next guy.
As for street vendors, I will often pay closer to the asking price if a woman is alone, etc. But, keep in mind that in a culture such as Mexico, the money still often goes home to the man of the home and he decides what to do with it.
Also, be smart and do your homework back home. Know what you would pay for in your area for such an item. It's really easy to impulse buy on vacation. If you have a set plan on what you are looking for and a definite range..your bargin hunting will pay off!
LisaCA