I wasn't responding to you Tom, I was responding to Fatphil32's (John?) post.
Yes, we may be saving lives, but we're also losing some.
I wasn't talking about a home specifically, as in a cement foundation topped with brick/wood/whatever that people live in. I'm talking "a home", someone's family. You know when someone involved in a divorce says "you wrecked me home"?, that's what I meant. Believe me I know they killed thousands of people. Sadly, many of my friends lost family because the commute to the city. Some of my classmates parents were the EMTs responding, and my BFFs dad was across the street, literally.
We didn't intentionally kill anyone innocent, but we knew it would happen anyway. I just wish there was some way we could've solved this, captured Saddam, whatever, without the 7 years of war.
Your last paragraph is why I think we had no business in the war. We are, what?, tens of thousands of miles away and WE think we can solve a war that's been going on since the dawn of time? Unfortunately, no matter how much influence you have in the war, you have no impact in that great a war.