As far as any gate he claimed we went through I'm sure I would have heard something hit the car. There was no gate for sure.
When people are saying there was a gate they weren't saying you HIT the gate, but that there WAS a gate to get out from the GF. There absolutely is. You would have had to stop at the gate that was down (and from what I recall there's wording to STOP there too) to go up. So there was a gate that existed. That's why people are saying there was a gate.
As for pulling out your phone...I've seen many mentions *by police officers* or departments in their official capacities telling us to do just that. If we are in doubt, say "wait, I need to call 911 because I'm nervous", and a real cop is supposed to respect that.
Having the window down and having the person asking questions doesn't mean that everyone has to answer. I was pulled over for speeding once with a couple other people in the car, and only I, the driver, answered questions. He was looking at my passengers, but they knew that their place was to be quiet and my place was to be the question-answerer.
Well I'll end my conversation about what happened to us. Most people on this board have been very helpful while some are making a joke about it and think it's an April fools joke. I would like to see how they felt if it happened to them. As far as the decision we made to report to Guest relations, wether it was the right decision or not, is what we did. Can't take that back now. Thanks again to those who really tried to give their best advice on my post.
So there's one person that I can see who is actively thinking you're not telling the truth, and all the rest of us are trying to help you, and you're reacting to the one person?
I have a hard time believing any of this is true, let alone Orange County law enforcement acting in such a manner, especially with all of the negative outcomes law enforcement is receiving nowadays.
But you are assuming that this dude was, in fact, law enforcement. Some of us don't actually believe that. Hence the suggestions to call them, make a complaint, etc, so they can see if in fact this was one of their people. The OP described him as "elderly" at one point; are most active law enforcement people still active by the time they could be described as "elderly"?
OK on the other side of things, people make stuff up for online postings all the time. During my wedding planning days (which lasted a very unfortunate nearly 3 years of never-ending engagement) I saw it multiple times. Who knows why they did it, but they did it.
And of course anyone with a weird story to talk about has to combat that. For anyone with a difficult story to deal with there's the echo of some big months-long lie someone online told in the background...during those 3 years of wedding planning I did I saw a few instances of the following story: newly engaged woman, so happy! weird symptoms. Oh know, a dread diagnosis. Better! Worse. Better! Worse. Better get married FAST, just in case. Married! silence... Devastated new husband announcing the wife's death. Then somehow, somewhere in there there was ALWAYS a request for money (even before gofundme). And then the internet detectives would find the IP addresses and work it out and find this person posting (as the wife) on other boards, running the same scam. Anyone who has been taken in by that; whether they are taken in financially or just emotionally can be hardened to other weird stories.
For me I tend to believe and behave as though it's real. I don't give money, though, not unless it's something in the paper and there's a good reason the person didn't insurance to cover the costs.
In this case, I don't believe that the sheriff was a sheriff. And I want the OP to contact the police and find out what the heck that was all about.