Ok I need a recommendation for a good park tote bag or back pack. I have tried the Baggallini messenger, and because of my short height it a) looked ridiculous and b) hurt my back. I also tried the ellington flight tote bag this past Sept, and pretty much destroyed my left shoulder and it took weeks to feel better again. I carry usually: a small camera, small id holder/wallet, 2 water bottles,sunscreen,ponchos, and an autograph book and hat for DD. We are going in Dec this year so light jackets will probably be a must. So please help! I am thinking a backpack may be better, but open to suggestions for a small petite woman, and if it is plain Dh will carry it too.