Sorry--guess I didn't realize that people spend more than a few days. That's why I asked the question. Having never been there, and knowing that at WDW average stay is 7 days for 4 parks, didn't realize that an "average" stay was more than what I posted. Is May a "slower" time like at WDW or just as busy? We usually get out of school early May here, if there's no snow days, so that's when we would go.
Since there's only be a few responses, I'm not sure that makes it "obvious" that my choices are too low

. It just means two people stay longer. Thanks to those who responded so far.
Hi there
Been going to
Disneyland for 40+ (ahem...) years, been there more times than "my age", so with the new "Carsland", Buena Vista Street, Matterhorn refurb, and the many new eateries, there is so much to see, take your time and soak it in. There are many details that people miss, I wouldn't rush it. 7 days in the high season or 5 days in the off season should work.
Disneyland in May
Keep in mind that Grad Nite is in full effect in May for both Disneyland and California Adventure. Hours change and are limited, so check back at the Dis, Disney.com or call a CM for specific dates in May.
Where to stay
I absolutely LOVE the Grand Californian, it has it's own direct entrance to DCA from the hotel. No bus, no boat, no monorail, just a short walk from your room straight into the park. Crazy I know, comparing how big WDW is to DL.
The Disneyland Hotel is another option, still very close to the parks, within walking distance. The hotel is completely refurbished and is very beautiful. The pools are refurbished too.
Paradise Pier is another option, but check out the hotels and compare what you like. There are other surrounding hotels within walking distance to the parks, Howard Johnson, Best Western Park Vue, Portofino Suites, just to name a few. Read the reviews and check out the blogs, I hope you find something you like.
Btw, if you want relief from the crowds, Huntington Beach is not far away and a nice place to check out the Pacific Ocean.
Where to eat
Don't forget Disney Dining,
Book reservations by contacting Disney Dining at (714) 781-DINE or (714) 781-3463 up to 60 days before your visit.
You can also get information about menu items, special events and special dietary needs.
There's so much info out there, have fun doing the research

