That's pretty much what I've done. Is put the control in his hands. It's his life. Me nagging him isn't going to help except to make our marriage suffer. So I listen to him, I give him the info I have, he makes his decisions. But yeah, it's pretty hard to see him say he's not going to go. Not that he's totally wrong...........there's not a lot they can do..........if he gets a lot worse he can go back to high dose steroids and THAT is no fun for anyone...........if he gets liver cancer, well, that's a whole new kettle of fish.
I don't know. I want him to live well as long as he can. But he has to decide what living well means to him. I'm too tired to make any sense tonight.
Thanks for the well wishes.
I don't know. I want him to live well as long as he can. But he has to decide what living well means to him. I'm too tired to make any sense tonight.
Thanks for the well wishes.