tarheelmjfan
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Sorry, I can't figure out how to quote your responses that were within my reply, but I do want to reply to them all. I wasn't in any way trying to insinuate that you thought they were required to accommodate you in a specific way, so sorry if it read like that.
I injured my hip at 17 and, despite surgeries, have had issues with my strength, range of motion, and overall mobility since. I'm 30 now, and have osteoarthritis in my hips, knees, and SI joints, along with some other issues all stemming from that initial injury 13 years ago. It really sucks to have a disability and I'm sorry that you're going through it too. My door is open as well if you ever want to talk. It sounds like we are in a similar boat with our physical capabilities. I can sort of do stairs if I have to, but I can only step up (still painfully) with my right leg and then have to pull the left up after. Both of my kids as toddlers tried to "teach me" to walk up stairs by alternating legs and I'll admit it made me cry both times. I too am grateful though that I still have some mobility.
Sorry, I'm going to make another difficult quote, but it's the easiest way to do it.Your story about your toddlers trying to teach you how to walk stairs breaks my heart.
I had a first grader that had to carry me food & drinks, while I was bedfast for 2 months, prior to having back surgery on 5 herniated discs. My DH had to work, so DS did what he could. I know exactly how you feel.
I was diagnosed with rheumatoid arthritis at 27 that developed from sports injuries. I now also have osteoarthritis. These have resulted in a deteriorating spine, arthritis on my pelvic bones, right hip, jaws, hands, ankles, toes & bone on bone knees. My knees in particular balk at steps. I also have to lift my legs for steps. Without DH's help, I don't even attempt a few steps. More than 4 or 5 isn't happening. I can be very limiting. I hope they can save the cartilage & ligaments in your knees. I have none & have to rely on artificial injections to offer cushion. If your legs start sounding like Rice Krispies (snap, crackle, pop), go to the doctor immediately to see what they can do.
Back to the topic though, yes, with a DAS you can have a "runner" from your party get the return times. I know there are some families who do that and others who can't because they are travelling alone or only with young kids. I think it is possible for someone to use the DAS and not have to walk more, but it can vary. The bench nearby you were planning on waiting at might be occupied, the bathroom or nearest quick service might be a little ways away, etc. On my last trip, I almost never saw an unoccupied bench, and did see CMs trying to keep people from loitering too long at the QS tables. I found ways to sit when needed on planters or by hitting up a show, or a couple times sitting on the curb (and thankfully DH was there to help me back up) etc, but my overall point was simply that Disney can't guarantee a place to sit for people throughout the parks who need it.
It's awesome that you're still able to sit on curbs. I miss those day. There's no way I can do that now, but we've never had a problem finding a place to sit. If we have to buy a drink & snack to share, so be it.