Kristin, I was reading back through posts and came across this message of yours. Though I wasn't in your party, my family was seated near you b/c your party and Jeff's wanted to be near each other (partly because I knew the kids would be up and down visiting each other)! That first night in Animator's Palate, I know how vexed you were about the dining situation and can't believe DCL couldn't get it figured out. This was a time when being in concierge should have worked in your favor. Yes, you were with a large party and you were linked to an even larger group, but at the end of the day, the dining people needed to have listened to your pleas and changed the tables around. And concierge should have gotten involved when that didn't happen after the first night.
Good grief, your mom received disturbing news from her doctor the afternoo of embarkation. She needed to sit with her daughter, son-in-law, and her twin grand-daughters. Family dinner is sacrosanct in my family. We pray together, share stories about our day, stuff like that, and having this time together on a cruise just seems like a no brainer. In hindsight, I wish I had gotten up from Jeff's table and insisted that they move heaven and earth to move your table two feet over to your mom's table so that you could be next to her.That this continued to be an issue for four more nights just appalls me. I'm with Jen, I wish I had thrown a stink and insisted that somehow something get altered so that your family of six could have been together. You did SO MUCH for everyone else on this meet board (put up with tons of angst with accommodating the FEs, etc) and it pains me greatly that the simple request to eat with your family proved impossible.
PM me the name and number of the DCL person and I will definitely call them with my views on the subject. Cancer stinks and when it rears its angry head, families need to pull together. I lost my dad to cancer and I know how precious time is-- we never can take anything for granted with the dreaded "c" word. You were on a family
Disney cruise (paid top dollar to be there) and it is not asking too much to be seated with your family, one of whom is seriously ill. I know you are worried about your dad too, after the scare in Williamsburg, so it just adds to my sense of injustice done to you and your immediate family.
Hugs from Virginia to Connecticut....