attraction

[DisneyCheshire]

physically and emotionally what are you attracted to? what physical attributes do you love and what do you hate? personality wise, what will seal the deal and what drives you insane? what do you look for in someone?

Uhm physically...A good outlook. Someone who takes care of themselves. I hate it when people don't brush their hair or clean their teeth. I love people who are clean and smell decent. I like someone who's not afraid to show their emotional side but also isn't always acting as if they're PMSing or something. Personality wise...I love people who make me laugh and love to have fun. I look for a person that you'd want to be around.

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[VolleyballQt07]

Physically:
HAIR-I have a thing for redheads. IDK why, I just do! hehe But hair color really doesn't matter. It's not like I'm not going to date someone just because they aren't a red head. It's just a plus if you have red hair. XD
BODY-They have to be athletic. Period. I'm athletic myself so I want someone who is physically fit and active. Not some couch potato. And muscles/abs are a plus! :] Oh and you need to be taller than me...by a few inches.
SKIN-For skin type it really doesn't matter. You have to at least attempt to take care of your face. Acne is part of life. We ALL go through it. So I'm ok with it if you attempt to take care of your skin.
EYES-IDC really what color eyes you have. The only thing I need is that when I look into them I see a "sparkle" hehe.
TEETH-These things need to be taken care of! hehe I love a guy with a great smile. So they need to be nice. lol
STYLE-Really IDC about style. If I like you, and you like me, and you are wearing clean clothes, IDC what style it is! lol Because looks/style don't matter.

Emotionally:
PERSONALITY-The dude needs to be serious when he needs to be serious, and funny when he needs to be funny. I won't lie I can get pretty damn sarcastic at times and I want someone who won't take everything so serious!
HONESTY-Don't lie to me and I'll return the favor. I hate liars more than anything!
TRUST-I want someone who I can trust with my life. I want to be able to tell them anything and everything and they will accept me for me.


So yeah. That's what I like. I'm picky but what can I say?? And actually, my boyfriend fufills all of the above requirements so I'm a happy clam. :] A guy also needs to accept me at my worst and best! My boyfriend now will come at 9:30 at night to our school and see me after 3 hours of volleyball practice when I'm all sweaty and nasty and he'll give me the biggest hug and not care I smell horrible!

 

[Pearls]

being tall is an absolute must. 6'0" and over, please.
Other than that, I really don't have a 'type' of guy. I've liked fair, dark, blonde, red head. As long as they're cute and tall.
Oh, but hygiene is good.

Personality wise, humor is probably my main thing. I'm such a goofball - I need someone who wont roll their eyes at me every time I make a face or talk with a russian accent. He doesn't have to be as much of a dork as me, but he has to be able to deal with it, lol.
and I have to admit, I'm a nice guy girl. I'm not into the whole aloof, "cool" guy thing. I like my boys sweet and thoughtful, and I think its so CUTE when boys blush. hahaha.

 

[JulielovesDisney]

Physically:
Hair. For some reason, that's the first thing I notice about a guy. And it's the thing that drives me the most wild. And it's not just one hairstyle, I go crazy over many different types. Different styles work of different people.
Eyes. Intense colored eyes are fantastic!
Smile.
Laugh.
Muscles. I love meat on men. I don't like scrawny guys.
Height. I like my guy to be taller than me.

Personality:
SENSE OF HUMOR! It's a must.
Caring.
Playful.
Athletic.
Jokester.
Loyal.
Outgoing.
Doesn't take things too seriously.
Has goals in life.

 

[::Snow_White::]

Stealing Ideas here...

Physically:
Hair-I typically seem to go for short, black, spiked sort of hair. That's just usually. I go for anything as long as it's clean.
Eyes-I love green eyes.
Skin-A long as you try to keep it nice, that's all I care about. I have acne and it's a pain, I understand.
At least somewhat fit, as in not sitting around all the time. I'm creeped out by huge muscles, a little bit is okay, but it doesn't bother me if they aren't muscular at all.

Hardworking.
Funny, but serious when they need to be.
Determined.
Creative.
Honest.
Kind.
Trustworthy.
Caring.
Adventurous. (If they don't like to travel, it won't go too well, I'm always wanting to travel.)
I like artistic, creative, book reading/museum touring/walk in the park type people.
Oh and smart, they have to be smart and like kids.

No baggy pants. Absolutely no baggy pants. That annoys me more than anything.

 

[HSMndLKfan92]

Physically -
A cute face with great eyes and a heart warming smile.
Hands that are holdable, that fit great with mine.
He can't be a stick, nor really overweight.

Emotionally -
He needs to know that I'm weird and that I get moody. He better know how to deal with this.

I want a guy that gets my bizzare sense of humor, and that he'll make jokes and laugh with me too.

He needs to know that I get carried away with the little things in life & that I'm a hardcore idealist.

He needs to know when it's a good time to give me a hug or kiss me on the cheek.

I also like honesty, loyalty, and trust. He better be this way to not only me, but his friends, and his family too.

Oh, and I like guys that have dogs.
I realized that awhile ago.
I also lean towards blue - eyed guys, though I normally date guys with brown eyes.

 

[Captain Brain]

Well then...Nobody likes scrawny.....

Physically:
I have a thing for big blue eyes. Eye colour isn't that important though.
Hair colour isn't important. As long as it's clean.
Build isn't important.

Emotionally:
Somone who can put up with the crazy things I do.
Must have a great sense of humour.
Must be a sweet girl.

 

[MrsSparrow..]

Physically;

Taller than me..
Dark Hair
A largeish nose
Longish hair
Good teeth; thats important to me and I don't know why..

Personality-wise;

Someone that understands my boyish sense of humour that consists of, getting hurt, being disgustingly dirty sometimes, insults and heavy sarcasm.

Someone who is funny and doesn't take themselves seriously. I can't deal with serious.

Quirky, I like interesting people.

Likes sports, mainly because I do.

Someone that thinks my Disney and Theme Park obsessions are cute and normal

A guy who will drool looking at pictures of lift-hills with me lol.

 

[AmandaSparks730]

I'm waaaaay more into personality than I am in looks.

It's pretty much the same for me, what I look for in boys and girls.

*Nice
*Not TOO tall (awkward) but tall enough for a nice snuggle
*Sweet
*Just sensative enough to share feelings with me
*Funny
*Great sense of humor
*Doesn't mind my Broadway fixation (or at least can tolerate it)
*Likes me for me
*Cute (I'm not looking for total hottie, but cute will do)
*Nice eyes (I like eyes...)
*Is able to comfort me and not say "oh just get over it"
*Creative (a MUST!)
*Not too lazy
*Respects me
*Honest with me about his past
*Romantic (ish)
*Likes some of what I do
*Doesn't mind about all my disablilities
*Likes traveling
*Open to me
*Can trust ME

It could go on, but that's the basic

I've found quite a few people who have these traits...uhmmm...yeah

 

[HannahBanana]

Physical-
In Shape
Nice Skin, doesnt have to be perfect

Emotionally-
Trustworthy
Funny
Romantic
Brave
Handsome :]
Creative
Open to me
Not Lazy
Adventurous

 

[tinkerbell12]

Physically-
Normally I look more for the "skater" type just because I like longer hair, the shaggy kind. I don't really mind if they're all that skinny. What matters to me is their personality (and the eyes, I'd probably faint if a guy with amazing eyes looked at me xD). I like really any color hair. It'd be ideal if they were super pale like me just because I'd feel most comfortable but it doesn't really matter. I would also be ok if there was a more sporty guy, but "skater boys" are more what I look at. My friend and I always go on walks around the town looking for "skater boys" even though we pretty much know they're all gone. (except this year a new "skater boy", Matt, moved here from like ohio or something and he was pretty attractive ) But I'm not picky really. My friends actually say I'm the nicest person they know just because I tend to not judge guys on how they look but I really get to know them. That's probably because I have a lot of guy friends that I really know because we share a lot and they aren't the most attractive guys ever, but they're really sweet and they deserve girlfriends.

Personality-
Well, I'm gonna stick up for my man for pretty much anything he does so he has to be pretty good-natured because I can't stick up for someone who breaks into people's houses. He absolutely has to have a good sense of humor because everyone says I'm funny so if he doesn't think I'm funny, that's gonna all go downhill. Also he has to be really understanding because I'm seriously outta whack sometimes and if he doesn't understand that I'm like that, then he's probably gonna run for it. He also needs to be sensitive but not the too gushy kind. Eh, I don't know. Just amazingly perfect in every way. And that's really not hard because I'm not really hard on people.

 

[nickkevingirl93]

First and foremost~ I look for a good Christian guy! That's something that I need.
Second, I really love guys with curly hair! That's a really big thing. Usually, I'm attracted to guys with curly brown or dirty blonde hair.
I like guys with blue eyes, or brown eyes, usually, but it depends. But mostly, here again, I just look for a GOOD CHRISTIAN GUY!

 

[crazytp93]

I won't lie and say looks don't matter. But, it's not everything.

Physcially-
Long Hair. Black, or dark blonde-ish. It really doesn't matter to me what color it is. But I really like straight hair.
Eye color doesn't really matter.
I don't like big noses.
Nice smile.
Nice voice.

Emotionally-
Isn't going to be stuck up or anything.
Will put up with me and my craziness. =p

 

[Babyjustrun]

Well then...Nobody likes scrawny.....

Physically:
I have a thing for big blue eyes. Eye colour isn't that important though.
Hair colour isn't important. As long as it's clean.
Build isn't important.

Emotionally:
Somone who can put up with the crazy things I do.
Must have a great sense of humour.
Must be a sweet girl.

I do xD
But they're tall scrawny.
Almost every guy I've liked in the past year has been tall, skinny and bony.
xD
Yeah, most people don't think they're the great lookers ever, but I think they look just fine.

 

[BabyPiglet]

First of all that person has to be clean and smell good. Then I look for personality. Mainly someone who makes me laugh my butt off and is generally good-natured. I like to get a nice, warm, i care about you kind of vibe from him.

 

[Shelton123]

Here's what I want in a woman.

Physically:

Nice eyes, her eyes are so important and I've a sucker for a pair of gorgous eyes.
A nice body, I'm not going to pretend I don't care about the body. I'm open minded, but the girl has to look good and take care of herself and her body.
Another non-lying thing, a good kisser. I need to pretty much melt when she kisses me. There has to be fireworks going on in my mind when she kisses me. It needs to be magical.

Personality Wise:

A strong woman. I don't want a weak woman, if the woman will do anything and everything for a guy, she's weak and is not ready for a relationship.
Caring, but not 100% nice. I don't know why, but sometimes if a girl is completely nice it just doesn't attract me. She has to have some mean in her.
Not jealous. I don't want anyone jealous. I'm not a jealous person, and I don't want my girlfriend to be a jealous person.
She needs to respect my insanity. I have some insanity and if she wants me to tone it down, I can't hang with that.
I don't care what religion she is. She could be any relgion as long as she doesn't want me to switch mine. I'm not religious or orthodox, but I get offended when people want me to be something other than what I am. She needs to respect my beliefs

Am I expecting too much?

 

[PowerMonkey]

lol like i always say, physical attraction is only there to catch my attention at first, but after that, everything is based on personality.. personality totally trumps looks

but i guess these are the trends im attracted to.. there are always exceptions to these .. except for hygiene haha:

Hair: i dont really care, but i tend to notice dark haired girls and dirty-blondes more lol
Build: i like normal and healthy looking girls haha.. being really skinny isnt that great, so i dont know why some girls starv themselves.. im short so i dont care about height XD
eyes: i like light eyes but i dont really mind
Style: i like girls that are more down to earth.. casual and such most of the time, but formal when they need to be.... if im with someone thats always dressed to impressed, i feel like im out of their league lol
hygiene: they MUST be clean haha... no exceptions >_>



personality:
honesty is the most important thing to me..... id rather hear the truth about things than lies... even if it means that i get hurt in the process... also, having the same interests as me is always a plus... annnd they have to be able to joke around... because i do it all the time lol... i dont want to be with someone that would cry if i made a "yo mamma" joke to them XD..... do you know how awkward that would be?

Me: yo mamma is so fat! that when she went bungi jumping, she fell straight to hell ^_^

Girl: omg! she has a metabolism problem!! its not her fault!! i cant believe you, your such a jerk ::cries::

Me: . . . . . . . ::takes the walk of shame:: -_-

 

[BabyPiglet]

lol like i always say, physical attraction is only there to catch my attention at first, but after that, everything is based on personality.. personality totally trumps looks

but i guess these are the trends im attracted to.. there are always exceptions to these .. except for hygiene haha:

Hair: i dont really care, but i tend to notice dark haired girls and dirty-blondes more lol
Build: i like normal and healthy looking girls haha.. being really skinny isnt that great, so i dont know why some girls starv themselves.. im short so i dont care about height XD
eyes: i like light eyes but i dont really mind
Style: i like girls that are more down to earth.. casual and such most of the time, but formal when they need to be.... if im with someone thats always dressed to impressed, i feel like im out of their league lol
hygiene: they MUST be clean haha... no exceptions >_>



personality:
honesty is the most important thing to me..... id rather hear the truth about things than lies... even if it means that i get hurt in the process... also, having the same interests as me is always a plus... annnd they have to be able to joke around... because i do it all the time lol... i dont want to be with someone that would cry if i made a "yo mamma" joke to them XD..... do you know how awkward that would be?

Me: yo mamma is so fat! that when she went bungi jumping, she fell straight to hell ^_^

Girl: omg! she has a metabolism problem!! its not her fault!! i cant believe you, your such a jerk ::cries::

Me: . . . . . . . ::takes the walk of shame:: -_-

 

[disneyoverload]

I don't try and peg what I like about people, because really, there's probably nobody who matches up to what I would want 100%. But I do like when arm veins pop out, like strong arms or something. I know, wierd. xD But I do love hair, like sort of long hair (by no means hair that has ponytail capabilities) in any color. Personality wise, they should be nice and I should like their personality. I don't know exactly what attracts me.

 

[Princess victoria]

well on the appearance part - I love longer Shaggy hair or really Curly hair. usually the first thing i notice on a guy are Hair and their eyes. and they have to have a good sense of style. and i prefer skinnier guys. oh and i love it when they Skinny jeans xD.
observe:
The Curly hair, w/Skinny Jeans. Ex.1

Ex.2

and The long Shaggy hair W/skinny jeans.

XDDDDD
LoL

anyways onto Personality
I love really sweet guys. and Romantic guys, ya know that give you flowers and treat you special everyday of the week. xD
and if they're Christian it's always a good thing. and i love a sense of humor too. and it's a major plus if they're into Music and play and instrument and sing.