39 degrees to 73 degrees in 3 more days.
We are
3 days away!! I cannot believe we are finally this close! I am in the final stages of packing myself and my two youngest. My husband hasn't even started packing, thankfully I pack the children so he is not responsible for that otherwise he would probably have to take a whole day off work to figure it out.
I am so ready for this vacation our family needs this so bad! So much has happened since my last post..
So here is my worst case scenario life for the past 3 weeks:
My oldest had to go into a outpatient therapy program costing us
$500/week; We had no choice but to put him in it so I sucked it up and made a payment plan.
I had some bad test results come back due to cervical cancerous cells, I had prior gone under 4 Colposcopy's and a Leep procedure in the past year to removed them but they are back again so had to get that addressed (Which fun fact I am still paying off last Decembers bills)
The same week my husband had a machine press come down on his finger and almost take it completely off (he has limited mobility in it now).. because he was injured at work they had to do a drug screen which we though oh no big deal that's fine... What he didn't realize was that a weekend prior when he had gone to urgent care due to an infection in his tooth they gave him Vicodin and an antibiotic. As he was doing the drug test the doctor of course asks what medications he is on and he tells him.. The Dr says that Vicodin will show in the results, My husband was a bit concerned but though because he had a prescription no big deal its not like he is buying drugs on the street. My husband went back to his HR department to give them a heads up to make them aware... They didn't make a big deal of it and he went back to work for the rest of the week. My husband gets called into the HR department at the end of the week and they tell him he is terminated because there is a policy that states if you are on medication you have to let HR know because you cannot operate machinery. Now what upsets me is that my husband let HR know after the fact and
THEY STILL LET HIM WORK FOR A WEEK!!! - He lost his job of 6 years he was completely devastated.
He held our medical benefits so we had to enroll into my works which is
$300 more a month.
He spoke to a buddy and started a new job just a few days later, however is getting paid
$3 less an hour with no benefits
Next my youngest son took my car keys and hid them, of course I only had 1 copy so had to pay
$200 for a locksmith to come out an make a new key at midnight, I go to start my car the next day and it doesn't work.. apparently he messed it up and I had to wait for him to come out to fix it. I thought everything was great because I found my set of keys (hidden behind the toy box) just recently my car won't turn off when you take the keys out of the ignition so it has been draining my battery.
My husband started that new job and everyone in there chain smokes, he has bad asthma so it has been killing his lungs well he ended up being admitted into the hospital for respiratory issues to to the smoking, there is nothing he can do since its a little mom and pop machine shop... He has been doing breathing treatments but his lungs are so messed up so walking around Disney is going to be a challenge for him.
I also just got a statement for my sons outpatient program remember the
$500 fee I paid well apparently that wasn't for everything, they "ala carte" all these other services and DR's he visited throughout the day without my consent totaling an additional
$500!!!!! I was totally scammed by this place.
Just when we though nothing else could get worse a pipe in our basement started leaking and broke, the the pipe that runs water from our kitchen sink and washer... Apparently to fix this pipe because it is stripped and super old and requires digging into the basement floor would be well into the
thousands - We had a friend come over to "band-aid" the issue for now until we can get back from our trip and figure out what we are going to do with the holidays happening.
As if that wasn't stressful enough we tossed and turned about cancelling our trip but due to the fact we paid in gift cards and didn't get
travel insurance we would be screwed anyways.
Everything seemed fine and dandy going well and we literally got smacked in the face by all these medical bills and other nonsense... You can only plan for so much at once you never imagine that in 3 weeks you will be thousands in debt. Very eye opening and a definite test of our marriage. I think that if my husband were to still have his job it would for sure be less stressful we would have at least
$800 extra a month to go towards bills, this is just going to be a rough patch for a while. It may also be a sign, he has been wanting to make a change in his line of work for a while and he is applying with my company and is in the final stages of interviews, he also is interviewing for an amazing position at another company which could be life changing so hopefully this is all for a reason... When one door closes another opens type deal.
So as you can see by my lengthy rant / post I am ready for a great vacation to escape our worries and problems for 12 days.
This will most likely be my last post.. So stay tuned for our official trip review coming soon!!