Spent half my childhood here, left and when we came back we shopped Special Ed services before buying.
One think you absolutely have to consider is the horrendous traffic issues here. You could pick a location to live and while your job may only be 20 miles away it could take 2 hours each way. I would have to factor in the job location to the home. The stress of a commute is not healthy for a family.
That said, we are in North Fulton County and the services are excellent. My DS is aging out of high school, but his program is incredible, the teachers are incredible and I wouldn't change a thing about our decision. I have had differences of opinions and a few unpleasant meetings over the last 14 years, but I really have never had to fight for anything. The last couple were extremely difficult due to changes with him, and his school staffing went above and beyond to make it work for him.
We are also experienced going to the Marcus Institute for services. They do have children going to school there BUT they are few and they are there because they are self-abusive or a considerable danger to others. But the expanded services are great and you may find the need to use them, if nothing else but for evaluations. They are known nationwide.
There was just an article in the Atlanta Journal Constitution a few days ago regarding Gwinnett county and their services for Autism and how they have set up a school to service the population. It would mean no mainstreaming. Go to
www.ajc.com and do some research there. There are pro and cons to the sizes of some of our school districts. Larger school districts have more money and resources, especially if they are in a higher tax district. One thing the article said as the special population, especially autism, is growing at a rapid pace in Gwinnett and resources are stretched. Look for the article.
If at all possible get down here to sit and observe the different programs and see what you think is best. I assure you there is a
wide variety of what is offered in the different systems.
ps I was very surprised to see Gwinnett has established a separate school. Not the trend. Don't plan on your school district sending your child to private school. I lived in the NYC area as well and know what you are talking about. Here the districts are county wide, big and they service their own special population. That is why you need to see the classrooms, how they are run, the sizes, makeup, teaching styles etc. before you make a decision on what is right for you.