I've watched those shows as well and IMHO they deal well with a wide variety of people that are in a stressful situation. They also have to maintain a degree of control given the service they provide. Yes that means saying no sometimes but some of those people I would prefer not be let on an airliner flying a long distance in a confined space with me. All and all I think they do well. I've been in a customer service buisness for 25 years and find that most of those poor situation arise from customer ignorence of what the job requires, or unreasonable customer demands. Yes there are times that the service agent needs to be tune up, if you will, but in my experiance the ratio is 3 to 1. Thats why customer communication and education is so important. I think you get more flies with honey than vinager. Some may say the squeeky wheel gets the grease, but in China the says is "the proud nail gets hammered down". Lets all move to China shall we? LOL! Just my opinion

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ps: Just to keep this post Disney related, I think the cruise staff is a great example of fantastic customer service. I've used some of thier approch in my own customer care situations as well. It all starts with a smile!