I really thought long and hard before this final trip report.
Aulani - One & Done? Answer is yes (although DH says "never say never")
Aulani is a beautiful resort. I loved the view from AmaAma both for breakfast & at sunset. Better than the view from Fish House at Four Season's resort next store. I loved how Aulani has fruited water - all the time- throughout the resort. (wish DVC resorts at WDW did the same) I loved the robes in the room.
But ultimately, when DH & I discussed the things we enjoyed most about this trip (and it was a wonderful trip) those were things that weren't at Aulani. A resort dominated by a spectacular pool/water feature, with all of the noise, chair issues, etc., is not for us. If we return to Hawaii, it would be to other islands, probably the Big Island.
I was disappointed with the higher end dining at or in the immediate area of Aulani. I get that when you have really fresh ingredients, you don't have to do much with them & we did have really fresh fish throughout the trip, but none of the meals really spoke to us. For about $200 for two diners with one glass of wine, I think the meals should be memorable. Probably the best dinner was at Roy's. I enjoyed the marinated butterfish (server's suggestion) & I can't say enough about the local mushroom side dish, which was good enough for two dessert lovers to skip dessert. But I didn't find the kind of dining in the Ko'lina area that I had hoped for. If I hadn't gotten sick, which threw off our plans, we would have gone into Honolulu, where it seems the dining is on a different level. But honestly, I didn't relish driving 35 miles round trip, possibly in traffic, to pay to park, for a good meal. Living just on the other side of the river from Manhatten, I go on vacation, hoping to avoid that.
I want to acknowledge all the reliable & useful information that I found on this board. I had taken both a Frommer & Fodor guide from my library. But it was the suggestions from fellow DISers that we relied on.
But the best single source of information & inspiration came from the four part
Dreams Unlimited podcast on Aulani. THANK YOU John, Kevin & Tracy. While I'll never share your love of Aulani, you helped our vacation in many ways. For example, I never would have known of Anna Miller's, where we ate after our Pearl Harbor trip. A really fun, local experience. Gotta love a restaurant that has 15 minute Pie Pick up Parking. As we waited for our table, we watched a mom park in the spot, unload an infant into a stroller and actually return, shortly thereafter with...wait for it...PIES. (Based on where we live, we never dreamt that she was using Pie Parking to actually pick up pies!) Their stories about malasadas put them on our Must Do list.
I'll probably continue to lurk on this board, but my new focus is our WDW Food & Wine Festival trip in late September. Our home resort is OKW, but we scored a 1BD at BWV, best location for the festival.