Asking my gay bretherin for advice

[Scissors4Franky]

Ok, see, I fell inlove w/ my best friend (nicknamed Rio) about, 7th grade or so, and I never told her, she is Bi, just like me, and I didnt find this out untill after she got a bf.

the day I was going to tell her I loved her, this kid I hate(mainly beacuse he got to her first, and ive loved her longer) asked her out, and theve been BF/GF for almost a year now. And her new BF knows I want Rio, so he gives me "I-hate-you" and "stay-away-from-my-woman!" looks all the time.

I reciently got a GF, but im not really happy w/ her, and im still having strong feelings for Rio. She and I used to be really close, and she was tecnicaly cheating on him w/ me, but not anymore. She is the only one I really feel happy around, and I know she feels the way I do about her, but she wont say anything, let alone talk to me anymore. And at school,she ignores me, but when she gets online, she "loves me" and treats me like we are best friends again.

I think shes afraid of bieng bi, and doesent want anyone to know how she feels.

Im so confused, and I could really use some advice on what should be done.

So, I figured id ask others like myself and see what happens.

 

[MrVisible]

I really don't have any advice for you, Franky. I learned a long time ago that advising people on their love lives is like yelling at trains. It might make me feel better, but the people who need the advice just rush off by on their own course no matter what.

You're gonna get hurt. She's gonna get hurt. A few other people are gonna get hurt. You know what? It doesn't matter. Do what you feel is right, act with love, and let things play out however they play out.

Love isn't neat, it isn't predictable. No matter how good your intentions or how well devised your strategies, it's going to be a mess.

As long as no permanent physical harm is done to anyone, this will all be just a memory of vague drama in five years. Unless it works, in which case it might be the relationship of your life.

Your youth should be full of passionate dreams, immense yearnings, improbable hopes, and intolerable heartache. Otherwise you're doing it wrong.

Go have a beautiful train wreck.

 

[Viki]

I really don't have any advice for you, Franky. I learned a long time ago that advising people on their love lives is like yelling at trains. It might make me feel better, but the people who need the advice just rush off by on their own course no matter what.

You're gonna get hurt. She's gonna get hurt. A few other people are gonna get hurt. You know what? It doesn't matter. Do what you feel is right, act with love, and let things play out however they play out.

Love isn't neat, it isn't predictable. No matter how good your intentions or how well devised your strategies, it's going to be a mess.

As long as no permanent physical harm is done to anyone, this will all be just a memory of vague drama in five years. Unless it works, in which case it might be the relationship of your life.

Your youth should be full of passionate dreams, immense yearnings, improbable hopes, and intolerable heartache. Otherwise you're doing it wrong.

Go have a beautiful train wreck.

Very well said!!!

Life is for learning ... so, whatever you do, take risks and pay attention!

 

[Scissors4Franky]

I really don't have any advice for you, Franky. I learned a long time ago that advising people on their love lives is like yelling at trains. It might make me feel better, but the people who need the advice just rush off by on their own course no matter what.

You're gonna get hurt. She's gonna get hurt. A few other people are gonna get hurt. You know what? It doesn't matter. Do what you feel is right, act with love, and let things play out however they play out.

Love isn't neat, it isn't predictable. No matter how good your intentions or how well devised your strategies, it's going to be a mess.

As long as no permanent physical harm is done to anyone, this will all be just a memory of vague drama in five years. Unless it works, in which case it might be the relationship of your life.

Your youth should be full of passionate dreams, immense yearnings, improbable hopes, and intolerable heartache. Otherwise you're doing it wrong.

Go have a beautiful train wreck.

Thanks guys, really.

I love how u summed it up btw. Beautiful Train Wreck

 

[MrVisible]

Thanks guys, really.

I love how u summed it up btw. Beautiful Train Wreck

That part I stole. It was from Cupid, a short-lived TV series starring Jeremy Piven.

So it's acutally advice right from the god of love himself.