Joy,
I smile at your post!!! My mothers name is Joy and ya'll sound like one and the same person!! Which is a good thing!!

I understand what you said about not "sitting well with your spirit". That is what my mother would say. And, I know in my life I have felt this way about things before.
Now, I don't feel that way about a whole of Disney things. We choose not to go extreme on some things. We did Fantasmic last time, much to my mothers dismay. My daughter is 7 though and I felt I could explain things to her. okay enough rambling about my thinking, let me see if anything would be offensive to you, or tell you a little about it so you can have the information to decide!
Also, some things are so slight they might go over your childrens heads as in the evolution things.
I will also say, everyone feels differently and the Spirit leads us all differently, just because I think it is okay, it might not be for you and vice versa!

We pretty much partake of everything, we tell our children what is real, what is not, does it bother them...etc.
1. The Living Seas-Epcot- The movie at the first has a lot of evolution in it. WE skip this by going thru the exit elveator doors and just go thru the exhibit.
2. Philarmagic - MK-has the sorcerer in it, but my mother was okay with this. But mickey does direct the somethings, Fantasia style.
3. Universe of Energy - Epcot- has evolution references in it.
4. SpectroMagic- MK- Has some scary scenes in it, with villians.
5.I haven't been on the Stitch ride yet
6.Almost everything in Epcot Future World has humanistic thinking in it....not evil, but one world, evoltution, etc. I don't find it evil and most likey will go over your 5 year olds heads.
7. Beauty and the Beast Show- is like the movie, evil spell, spell broken, transformations.
8.Tower of Terror - Spirits, etc.
9.Rock n Roller Coaster- Load Rock Music
10.Voyage of the LIttle Mermaid- Evil vs. Good, witches, transformations
11.Lion King Show -AK- Some christians find the Circle of Life offensive, one world unity, etc.
12.pocohantas Show- AK- Unity, one world, chanting, etc.
13. Norway, the Maelstorn ride- My mother doesn't like this as it has a beast on it.
14. The wonders of Life- Epcot- the making of me- detailed about birth- your children might not be old enough
15. Cranium Command- Epcot- Inside a 12 year old brain- I don't know if it will be right for your childrens ages
That is all I can think of that you might find remotely offensive. I hope you have a wonderful time!!