A dear friend has RA. She is going through a bad spell and needs ideas how to cope. Her Dr. suggested getting tongue depressors to put toilet paper on to help her reach herself and clean herself. Popsicle sticks were too short. I suggested maybe a long handled back scratcher that she could clean with bleach might help her reach. At this point she can't do up her bra or even put her socks on. I thought maybe some of my friends here on the Dis might have some coping suggestions. Any ideas?