IMO, in the table holding situation, the onus is on disney to provide adequate seating, not on the paying customer to be more considerate. Obviously disney is in it for the money (just like any corporation--not holding that against disney). So if they can convince us all that it's our burden to be polite to other guests then they don't have to cut into the profits and offer a bigger dining area with more seating.
There's just nothing fundamentally rude about wanting to sit at a table and rest or supervise young children in a more controlled environment. The problem only arises when there isn't adequate seating, and that's on disney.
There's just nothing fundamentally rude about wanting to sit at a table and rest or supervise young children in a more controlled environment. The problem only arises when there isn't adequate seating, and that's on disney.