What a fabulous trip report.

Speaking of stealing stuff from you, I apparently borrowed the wording of your "lesson learned" for my trippie!

Funny thing is, I started to read your trip report, laughed because I was thinking of doing the same thing, but when I started my trippie I couldn't remember exactly what you said. I thought it was "moral of the story" so I used "lesson learned." But that's what *you* used! Sorry for stealing your exact wording; my bad!
Tophat was too small for DH's head as well, so we got a regular black ball cap that said Groom on it. I ran into another bride whose husband was wearing the tophat and when I told her why DH wasn't wearing one, she thought it was hilarious that DH had a big head already, before we were even married.
I'm glad I wasn't the only one who didn't cry during the ceremony! I really thought I was going to, but when the time came I was just so relaxed (and our vows were sort of funny as well) that it never happened.
Keep up the great trip report and all the pictures. You were a beautiful bride, hot dress and all! (And sorry again about stealing your thunder with the "lesson learned" bit

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