Alton Brown has a great recipe for wings on the FoodNetwork website. He steams them first to cook off a lot of the fat, cools them in the fridge (works well for cook ahead) and then crisps them in a hot oven. That way you don't have to worry about the heat from the hotter oven burning the fat on them.
The best hot sauce we like it so make our own ... about 1/3 butter and 2/3 hot sauce with a dash of pepper and some garlic powder mixed in. Adjust the butter/hot sauce ratio to your preference.
To push homemade wings over the edge, you need to make homemade blue cheese dressing/dip. The store bought ones are just nasty. Their is a great recipe on allrecipes.com for it. I have made it many many times and it's great. Dh LOVES blue cheese and loves this one. You can also make ahead of time.
This is the blue cheese recipe I use ...
Ingredients
3/4 cup sour cream
1 1/3 cups mayonnaise
1 teaspoon Worcestershire sauce
1/2 teaspoon dry mustard
1/2 teaspoon garlic powder
1/2 teaspoon salt
1/2 teaspoon ground black pepper
4 ounces blue cheese, crumbled
Directions
1.In a large bowl, whisk together the sour cream, mayonnaise and Worcestershire sauce. Season with mustard, garlic powder, salt and pepper. Stir in blue cheese. Cover, and refrigerate for 24 hours before serving.
As for the Honey BBQ wings ... same cooking method and I mix up honey with Sweet Baby Rays, throw a little extra smoke flavoring in there and anything else I am in the mood for and let simmer. Honestly for Honey BBQ it's easier for me to buy the bag of Tyson frozen ones at BJ's. If you have a BJ's I recommend that .. they are good sized wings and very tasty. I would not normally advocate frozen wings of any sort but these are actually pretty good.