Its great to hear others people prospective on things, thank you for posting so far.
I was just browsing the VA website and came to thinking that for our flights next October I might actually do both.
I agree with a couple of the previous posters that the biggest issue is overcoming not getting the "perks" when you've been used to them in the past even if they are no longer so great. ie quick check in at MAN, leg room, better food options etc. But I also hugely agree that fundermentally we all get there at the same time and realistically the flight is just the means of getting to where the holiday begins.
My thoughts therefore are, the check in benefit only really applies to check in in the UK, as due to so many passengers checkin in at DTD for the home flight, in the past when we have arrived at the airport VA check in is usually fairly quiet. Please comment if you have ever encountered any different.
Also, IMO, children can sleep anywhere, in any space, and therefore feel that they would have more than enough room to sleep in the space provided in economy. I've often thought when I've seen them sleeping like 7/8 hours non-stop why have I paid for you to sleep in that big chair with all that space when your curled up in a ball 1/2 the size of an economy seat

As adults neither DH or I sleep regardless on board, even with the extra space PE provides and I'm therefore thinking we could easily manage economy home
I guess what I am saying is outbound we are all awake pity much for the full flight and can safely say we all would benefit from the extra room, check in at MAN is always, or has been for us Manic, like lines and lines of economy passengers waiting to check in, and again the benefit of no lines for PE would outbound appeal to us. Plus the overall excitement of "going on holiday" would be increased due to the upgraded flight. Realisitically coming home, I'm normally so gutted that it would make no difference to me whether I was in a gold plated hammock, I'd still have a face like a slapped.......

As my DH always says
