Anyone else watching The Bachelorette?

[Tine731]

WHY IS TWILLEY STILL AROUND?????

sorry...dont mean to shout but really.....she let Brian go and kept Twilley?

 

[babytrees]

True, but it showed that she's not emotionally together. I really think she needs to relax a bit, she seems so guarded and uncomfortable with herself.

Oh, well.. she let Brian go, which was expected. She kept saying that he was there for the guys and I don't really BLAME him.

I'll take him...

I agree on all but taking Brian...not my type .

But I gotta think I might have reacted the same way that they said the bbq was for her and didn't try to engage her. They should all be happy that the rose ceremony wasn't right then and there.

Twilley and Graham still give me the heebie jeebies!!

 

[mamajoan]

Altho I was terribly sad to see Fred go.. I did like what she said to him....
I think Fred must be a great guy IRL .. and I hope he find someone grand who will find him as awesome as I do!!

She is working hard for Graham... cutting him slack, getting aggitated with him, all cause she is warm for his form.... Personally, I don't get it.. .but then different strokes for different folks.

Dark horse... and out of the pack comes Sean He was so dang cute tonight!

 

[JamieW]

I'm sooo glad Robert's gone. He grossed me out with his unbuttoned shirts and completely unjustified confidence about his "connection" with Deanna.

I'm sad, but not surprised, to see Brian gone.

I also feel she's not going to pick anyone, which makes me wonder why I continue to watch this show. I think I'm a glutton for punishment.

 

[CDoobee]

Waaaaaa! I missed it! I was out tonight and totally forgot to set the DVR!!

 

[Imzadi]

argh. I missed the first half of tonight's show...silly Dbf and American Gladiators and Curb Appeal usurped the Bachelorette.

I missed the first half too. So why was she all upset in the previews? And were certain guys let go because of it?

 

[MaryAnnDVC]

WHY IS TWILLEY STILL AROUND?????

sorry...dont mean to shout but really.....she let Brian go and kept Twilley?

Same here. When she picked Twilley, I gasped. I was just thinking tonight, before the rose ceremony, that maybe Brian makes it to the end...that they were downplaying his presence for a reason. Shows you how much I know. LOL

I like who she has left, except for Twilley. He's such a goofball, and not in an endearing way, IMHO. Jerky and obnoxious. I'm surprised she didn't give Brian a chance to stay around longer and let Twilley go; can she really see herself with Twilley more than Brian??

I do think she ends up with someone. For however long it lasts.

 

[piglet too]

I like Twilly, not as her F1, but still, he is not that bad of a guy.

 

[MomofKatie]

I missed the first half too. So why was she all upset in the previews? And were certain guys let go because of it?

The guys in the "Outhouse" put together an impromptu party for DeAnna and the guys in the mansion. They came down, but Robert and Graham weren't into the get-together. Robert thought the guys were "hating" on him because he had his big 2-on-1 date that evening, and Graham was having a "I don't want to be one of a crowd kissing you" hissy fit. So the 2 of them both left the party and DeAnna was mad. Apparantly, she wanted everyone to pay her all their undivided attention.

Essentially, it was a "I'm the most important one here!! It's all about ME, ME, ME!!!" fit on DeAnna's part, IMO. Sheesh...

Robert got sent home, but I don't think it was because of the party- she never seemed into him at all. And, since she has the hots for Graham, she kept him around even though he doesn't seem into her at all.

 

[TwinsinCA]

Essentially, it was a "I'm the most important one here!! It's all about ME, ME, ME!!!" fit on DeAnna's part, IMO. Sheesh...

I never liked her much on the bachelor. Now as the bachelorette she comes off as SO arrogant, I want to smack her! Did she want them all hanging on her every word the whole BBQ? Good for Robert for not making a scene and just dealing with it on his own alone. And I thought it was great when he said to her that it seemed to him she already had her top three picked out. Because it seem pretty clear to me that she has and she's just waiting for the chance to get rid of the rest.


She's practically begging Graham to kiss her but gives Robert the cheek. Hmmm... isn't SHE the one going on and on and ON about putting it all out there and giving it 100% and all that? She's smooching with several of the other guys -- why she can't let Robert kiss her??

And then she sent Fred home. Sweet, wonderful, Fred. She deserves what she gets with the group she has left. I predict Sean and Twiley will be history next week. As for the rest I don't see any as a serious possibility.

Jason is nice but has baggage -- just don't see her as the maternal type. She is too much ME ME ME ( like momofkatie said) to want to share the spotlight with a kid.

Graham clearly has ISSUES.

I think Jeremy has them as well. He is creepy to me somehow. Maybe he really is sweet and doting and it is just the cameras that make him seem strange. But he is just OFF to me.

Jesse is young and I really do not see him seriously settling down. He is relaxed and mellow. Maybe they would balance each other out, but I think she is WAY too high maintenance for Jesse to put up with long term.


I have watched part of every season of this show and I do not recall any bachelor/bachelorette ever taking so much credit for arranging the dates. NEVER. I arranged for Natasha to sing for us. I arranged to meet Ellen. I arranged for the helicopter and the race track and the freaking Dodgers Stadium date. RIGHT.

 

[Diva of Dragons]

Waaaaaa! I missed it! I was out tonight and totally forgot to set the DVR!!

Does your DVR have "record entire series" option?

Anyway, you know how we keep saying that there hasn't been any "Most spectacular (fill in the blank) Bachelorette finale ever" hype? I think it should be most spectacularly frustrating season! Beginning to agree that she'll pull a Brad. I can't believe I'm actually losing interest!

She spent NO time with Brian, from what we saw. If nothing else, keep him around for OUR eye candy and send Twilley packing! Anyway, here's my personal opinion once again. FWIW

P=Promoted, D=Demoted, S= Same, from last week. (IMHO, of course!)

Faves
Jason (Acct. Exec., WA) S Liking him a lot!
Jesse (26, Snowboarder, CO) S There is more to him than meets the eye and snow.

On the Fence
Jeremy (30, Real Estate Atty., TX) S but he's starting to bug me.

Has Potential
Sean (33, Martial Arts, KY) P I think he talked too much "game" during 1 on 1. But at least finally he talked!

GOTTA GO!
Twilley (33, Debt Manager, TX) S No explanation needed!!
Graham (29, Basketball, NC) S What does she see in him???? If that's her taste, no wonder she's still single. Eeeeewww!

Procrastination of the week: Bill paying!

 

[sunlver]

Up until lasts night episode, I really liked Deanna...but she came off as a spoiled brat who has to be life of the party.. I understand the concept of the show. BUT..so what if every guy there wasnt hanging on her, or her every word ..She keeps telling them she knows how it feels, how she was on the other end of it with Brad being the Bachelor. People have feelings, she wants them all to be "real" with her, yet when one walks away to be inside by himself for a few minutes to get his thoughts together, she gets all upset about it If she were to do that, she would be justifying it.

I dont know what she sees in Grahm, except that he reminds her of Brad. If he was really that into her, he would of kissed her regardless of how many other guys she has kissed.I honestly dont think they could go the distance in the long run. I think it was sweet how her and Jason curled up under the blanket and talked outside.

 

[happygirl]

Did anyone else find it weird that she doing a bachlorette tells all with there being 6 constants left Don't they usually do that after the final rose??? I really understand why she was upset with the guys last night/ They are there for her and no one even noticed she was there. I would have been mad as well.. What I think happens after next week show she picks somone right there and then, That why there is no big finale. I'm willing to be she picks Graham since he warms up to her next week

 

[Robinrs]

Did anyone else find it weird that she doing a bachlorette tells all with there being 6 constants left Don't they usually do that after the final rose??? I really understand why she was upset with the guys last night/ They are there for her and no one even noticed she was there. I would have been mad as well.. What I think happens after next week show she picks somone right there and then, That why there is no big finale. I'm willing to be she picks Graham since he warms up to her next week

They usually do the tell all episode when there are the final two left.

I still think her showing out during the bbq was a reflection of her emotional immaturity. NO ONE is put on this earth to make you happy. She seems so wounded from the "Brad Rejection" she wants the guys to doubly make sure she is IMPORTANT.

She is not ready for a relationship.... she needs to find some kind of peace within first. She does NOT have it yet.

She seems to be obsessed with Graham because she, like most people like her, are attracted to men who make themselves emotionally unavailable to her. She chases him trying to change him ... BRAD... while avoiding men who are perfect candidates.... GEE, reminds ME of my twenties~~~

I don't think the guys here are as devoted to the process as she is... and she seems to know that.

 

[disneychick0412]

Stupid weather bulletins! I missed her sending both guys home on the 2 on 1 date and I missed Jason comforting her. What did she say to the 2 guys and what did Jason say to her to comfort her?? Would someone care to recap??

Thanks!

 

[Jennifer S]

I really like Jason - he's my favorite.

Don't know why Twilly is still there??? I think you are right she's not ready yet.

 

[Robinrs]

Stupid weather bulletins! I missed her sending both guys home on the 2 on 1 date and I missed Jason comforting her. What did she say to the 2 guys and what did Jason say to her to comfort her?? Would someone care to recap??

Thanks!

I think Jason is ADORABLE and he comforted her after the BOMB BOMB date. He knew he wouldn't have an apportunity like that probably EVER again so he jumped on it.

The episode is still up on ABC.com so you can rewatch it there.

 

[dzneelvr]

I had to take a break from the show the past 2 weeks (traveling) and was so disappointed in last night's show as well Deanna seems almost desperate to find her hubbie among the group and is fmaking her part in the show to be more of a "here's what you need to do right now because I know the answer!"...especially the lecture during the backyard bbq. I'm afraid she sounded a bit like a shrew lecturing them on how she wants them to behave instead of taking in their behaviors and using that as part of her eventual evaluator--so ok, some of them failed the test, then vote them off. Case in point--Graham He can't give her what she needs, she is "in lust" with him so gives him chance after chance telling him how he should act! I agree with the last few posters--she isn't ready for a relationship because of the rejection. Either next week she settles down and sees information in all the interactions (like she keeps saying they need to do ad-nauseum), or she continues to "educate" certain guys as to what she wants and they will then conform (for the time being). Too bad. This season had such potential

 

[F1Julie]

I am liking Deanna less and less each week. Last night, she was just too much of a drama queen. What man wants to be married to that? I can just imagine her life with her husband. Husband - "Sorry, honey I forgot to bring home milk." Deanna (in tears) - "How could you? You must not love me. You must not be thinking of me 24 hours a day." She was so self-absorbed at the BBQ.

I can't believe Twilley stayed and Brian left. I could see Brian being the next Bachelor. He's cute, has an amazing body, and seems like a sweet guy. I also felt bad for Fred. He thought he was good to go when Robert left. I also think Graham played his cards just right. By refusing the kiss, he just made her want him more. I don't think Deanna has a clue what she really wants.

 

[dec5girl]

Please help! I had to miss it and don't have DVR. I read some of your above posts, but I mostly want to know what she was screaming and crying about that we saw on last weeks preview.

Also, at the rose ceremony (I made it in time for that part) they said she sent two people home after one on one dates, Fred and who else?