anyone else have this problem???

[depplvr4906]

ok so me and my boyfriend have been together for 19 months and i love him so incredibaly much. but my best friend and him dont get along. it really bugs me. ive tried to ge them to hang out and they just wont. and when i try to hang out the three of us my friend doesnt trust me to not treat her like i third wheel which i woud never do. it just bugs me a lot and i needed to vent. thnx for listening!<333

 

[DramaQueen]

hmmm well my best friend is a guy, and my boyfriend sometimes gets a bit jealous, they don't hate each other or anything, but they weren't friends before we started dating or anything, so it's kind of awkward when we all hang out together (which is rare)

i have time for both of them.

i know alot of people have the mentality of 'bros before hos' or whatever,but i say don't let your friends get in the way of your relationship.

just talk to your friend, tell her you & your boyfriend have been together for a REALLY long time and you're not going to break it off with him any time soon, so she needs to accept it, and keep her opinions abut your bf to herself.
and your bf also needs to keep his opinions about your bff to himself.
you don't need to hear them smack talking each other.
talk to your bf too and tell him you're not gonna end your friendship with your friend either.

if possible you should hang out with them sepereatley if they can't get along together.