Anyone else have a DD trying out soon to be a Cheerleader?

At a high school here (that had a reality show for a short time), attractiveness was a huge part of the cheer squad selection process. I've heard parents talking (it could be untrue gossip - but the folklore is THAT strong) that children would get noses done by 8th or 9th grade in order to stay on the squad:scared1:. :sad2:. That's where I would draw the line...if I hadn't years before!

My sister worked for a plastic surgeon in LA that had "back to school" specials on rhinoplastys!!!



Oh my goodness!:scared1:

I just hope that they keep the judging fair and don't pick girl because if who the parents are. ($$$) I have a feeling that this is going to have something to do with it.
 
yeah dd is working now on the fine points of things. Her touch touch is awesome but she does need to have her feet straight with her flips. She enjoys going to open gym and we have a great gym that lets her practice without being a member.They all were going once a week up until Nov and working on their flips. Now dd likes to go and practice her stunting with the older girls and they really are great with the younger girls. we practice outside year round since we live in south fla. so Im sure our costs really pale in comparision to others. Im told in our area alone parents are shelling out $3000-$4000 a year for extreme cheering. :scared1:
 
I know the orginal post said she meant to put it on the "family board" I think it is very budget related! HA My friend's DD cheered in middle school and freshman and sophmore year, that's five years plus she had gymnastics etc for a few years before that, my friend said that had she put the money into a savings for college instead of gymnastics and cheer she would have her college tuition paid for for at least 4 years! Our school pays very little and what is not fund raised the parents have to pay plus all the cheer squads around here go to nationals at WDW for a week. I think she said one year with the uniforms and travel not including gas to and from practice getting into game and competition for the rest of the family food at games etc. it cost her about $10,000.00. I know this about right because I have heard other parents talk about the cost and parents have second jobs just so their child can cheer or be on the dance team. My friends DD did not try out her Junior year because she hated all the drama. I am soooooo glad my DD did not want to cheer or dance, she plays golf! :banana::banana:
 
I should add that our cheerleaders are really really good! They practice long hard hours, I know that on Saturdays they practice like 6:00 am to 4 or 5pm they bring sack lunch and before competition they are 7 days a week. They do win a lot of competitions and go to nationals every year I can remember! The parents also pay the coaches extra and the people who make up the routines are paid by the parents. I don't want to take anything away from these girls because they work hard! I just think it would have to be hard on their bodies! It does seem like there is always a couple injured.
 

Its one of the most dangerous sports for injuries.. some of the stunting is unreal. It does take a toll on their body. I have had frequent conversations with our pediatric ortho about the continued stress on their bones from the frequent tumbling.
 
Both DDs (who are now grown) cheered in middle school and HS. I think that it was a very positive experience for both of them. Now they are both outgoing and confident individuals with good time management skills. Tryouts were always a stressful time (especially for me). But you have to compete in everyday life and it they don't make cheerleader the first time - try again - anything worth having is worth "fighting for". My oldest DD didn't make it the first year she tried out (in 6th grade) but she sure appreciated it when she made cheerleader the next year!!!

This is the *exact* reason I choose to do training, spend money, go to comps, no matter the sport ..

The kids have gained more confidence, out going'ness more than I ever could .. in a job situation they will be the ones that step forward, not shy back because they grew up in sports or at least started competitively in it around 9th grade ..

I'm not a pushy sports mom, just really happy to watch the kids excel! i was a mom that thought it was no big deal until my youngest did a Individual in front of hundreds at a cheer comp AND beat her coach for 1st! At her age I would have DIED to get in front of people and she is typically reserved .. so that was pretty cool ..





 
Cheer is like any other sport, they can be so disappointed if they don't make it. It is also very demanding. My daughter was a cheer practice 7 days this week between Allstars and middle school. Now though Nationals in march is just hell. But she loves it so what can you do. The kids I felt bad for were the ones who had no dance or tumbling experience and walked into tryouts thinking they would get a spot.
 
Cheer is very expensive and I thought since our girls didn't like it I was safe from dealing with all the cheer stuff. DS has been cheering for 3 years now and will be trying out for the high school squad in April. on the JR high squad this year you did not make it if you were not close to having a full.
High school should be interesting.

I really recommend encouraging your kids to get involved with extra activities, we have 3 great teenagers and no major issues.
 
I am reading this and starting to sweat! I am really scared at what you all are telling me about middle and high school. It is so different now, I was not a Cheerleader, I danced. Back in the day, the two did NOT mix.

I am just about to sign DD8, 3rd grade now up for her 5th year of cheer which begins in August! It is a Pop league and she won't really compete until the following year, going into 5th grade. (I may get to be one of THOSE POP Parents at WDW some December)

She started when she just 5 and going into K. She has danced since 3 and we started tumbling one night a week last winter so she has 1 yr under her belt. She is working on the backhandspring but they are not quite there yet. I felt like she was behind the other girls in her skills and I wanted her to "catch up" and learn safely. A great gym opened right near our house so it is really convenient.

My younger DD had her 1st year last year but had been going to her older sister's practices (3-4 nights a week during August) since she was 2. She could not wait to be like her sister and already knew all the cheers by then! She is taking regular Gymnastics and I am hoping she will be at the right skill level by the time she is ready to do the stunts. She also has has dance since 3.

I'm wondering if we are doing enough? Too much? I almost would love to let her take 1 more dance class a week but I'm not sure when she would fit it in.
It is so much time and money already. In just fees for both girls, I spend 400 cheer, 800 dance, 900 gym for part of the year (we don't go during cheer season) plus tickets, geer, camps etc... oh and softball is coming up too...


That said, they both love it and really have fun with their friends at dance and cheer. I guess I'll have to rearead all your wonderful advice in 3 years when and if they want to try our for middle school cheer.

best of luck to all the girls who are trying out!
 
I find this thread so very interesting, my children are all grown and for the most part I couldn't even get them up out of bed let alone anything else.

But what I find interesting is that way back, yeah I did say way back whenever I was in school we just voted in the cheerleaders and of course anyone could try out but the school kids all got one day to vote for their choices of their cheerleader, and of course the most popular girls got the position. Is it not the same way now????

How many hours does this take up a week? A lot of things have come a long ways since I were in school and you just had a simple pep rally back them nothing more. :listen::listen:


When I was in high school we had to endure both judged tryouts and a student body vote. They announced who made it through tryouts over the intercom on a Friday afternoon, then the next week was a full out campaign with a student body vote that Friday. Winners found out they made it by being "kidnapped" by the previous years seniors and taken to breakfast, dressed up, etc. (I had to wear a sign saying I would sing the fight song on demand) and taken to school for the day.
Talk about ensuring maximum humiliation for everyone involved. :rolleyes:

Back then we just had to pay for camp, shoes, hairbows, and any extra matchy-matchy stuff we chose to get for pep rallies, etc.

It's much different now. DD cheered for a very competitive high school squad. You should have seen the contract parents had to sign, and the one for the girls was even more extensive.

Being an active member of the booster club was mandatory for parents. The booster club paid the school for gym time, purchased equipment and uniforms for the cheer program (the girls did not keep the uniforms). We also paid coaches salaries, their membership fees in national cheer organizations, their travel expenses, etc, etc, etc. Lets just say it was very, very expensive for DD to be a high school cheerleader.

Time commitments vary dramatically from school to school. The kids at DD's school called the coach "the cheer nazi". Of course I was always appalled by that title and felt it was extreme... until we got involved with the program. I'm still appaled by the title, but I have to say I understand how it originated now. :eek:

Summer practices were 2 hours every morning, Monday through Saturday, and they started at 5am. During the school year the girls had to commit to practice after school every day. Sometimes practice went for 2 hours, sometimes for 4 hours, occasionally even longer. The worst thing was that they never knew going in how long practice would last. 2 a days (both before and after school) were not uncommon during competition season.

One horror story: at one mega-long after school practice coach was in her office holding one on ones with some of the girls (dealing with cheer drama), so DD got the assistant coach to OK her leaving practice so she could get to work on time. When coach found out DD left practice without talking to her first, she called both DD and her boss, screaming that if DD didn't get back to practice she was off the squad. Of course by the time DD got back to school practice was over anyway. :rolleyes1
Thankfully DD worked at a gymnastics studio where this coach was well known, so they covered her class and let her go. They just added the incident to their stack of crazy cheer coach stories. :rotfl:

Of course I think programs/coaches as intense as my example above are probably the exception rather than the rule, but cheer in general has definitely changed and become much more demanding over the years.
 
My DD9 has been on a competitive All-Star team the past two years. She had been begging since first grade to join so we let her do it last year. Like people have said, it can be a great experience, but also very demanding in terms of time, money and on the little bodies. When I added up all the costs this season it is at least $2,000. $80/month to be on the team, $100 coaches fee, $150 choregraphy fee, $20 hair bow, $50 make-up, $70 shoes, $165 uniform shirt, $700 competition fees plus hotels for overnight competitions, cost for the family to get in to the competitions to watch, etc.

They practice 5 hours per week and she's there after school MWF. Plus 10 competitions throughout the fall and winter. Like someone else posted, there always seem to be a few that are hurt. Right now, my DD is one of them. She fractured her wrist doing a back tuck when she landed wrong. The cast came off at the end of January, but it still hurts and she does not want to tumble on it yet. One of her teammates is out the rest of the season due to cheer-related knee injury and another girl broke her wrist earlier in the season on a stunting fall and also another girl had a broken finger.

One downside I am seeing this year is she is one of the younger ones on the team. Last year she was the oldest. She is picking up on some conversations the older girls have I wish she would not hear. She wants to act and dress like them, as well. And her team wears cropped tops and her father had a cow with the bare stomach.

Sure has changed from when I cheered in junior high. Back then, all we had to do was a cartwheel. Now they have to have their backhandspring to be on the team.
 
Sorry for the COMPLETE hijack of this thread - but reading through it made me wonder.... how old where your DD's when they could do a front split (either leg).

My DD will be 5 in March and is really struggling. Her Jazz class (4 girls - and she is the youngest by almost a year) will get an ice cream party if they can ALL do a front split with at least one leg. DD is trying so hard and practicing at home - but she's still a good way off. She tends to be naturally inclined at dance - but struggling with this. It's hard to see them struggle and realize they are the only one not getting something. :-(

Clearly, it's not the end of the world or anything, but I was just curious if the flexibility thing was maybe somehow age related (ie, it came a little easier ot the older girls).

Anyway, again- sorry for the hijack, but so many of you seemed to have dd's that excelled at dance/gymnastics/cheer, so I thought I might get some good ideas here! :-)
 
Younger kids are naturally more flexible. I'm not naturally flexible, and I was at a big disadvantage because I didn't start to tumble until I almost 12. Your daughter is at a good age, but she might not be naturally flexible and will need to work harder at it than the other girls.
 
My DD9 has been on a competitive All-Star team the past two years. She had been begging since first grade to join so we let her do it last year. Like people have said, it can be a great experience, but also very demanding in terms of time, money and on the little bodies. When I added up all the costs this season it is at least $2,000. $80/month to be on the team, $100 coaches fee, $150 choregraphy fee, $20 hair bow, $50 make-up, $70 shoes, $165 uniform shirt, $700 competition fees plus hotels for overnight competitions, cost for the family to get in to the competitions to watch, etc.


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Well, we went to cheer tonight and while talking with the other moms they were saying that if they make it we will have to pay like 5-6 HUNDRED dollars that day. I'm not sure I even know what it's for. Plus they will be given a fundrasier pack that day too. They have to go to a four day camp at the University of Alabama, there is no telling how much that will be. They also have to buy a wind suit @ 169.00!:scared1:

I also just signed her up for a private lesson with this guy who is really good. I had to sign a contract & it's 130.00a month from now until May, for a one hour class per week. (30.00 an hour) OMG, this is getting crazy. We are already doing a cheernastics class & two open gyms. Plus I have a varsity cheerleader coming here once a week to help her with her jumps & cheers. My DH may leave me over this, but we are so close. :upsidedow
 

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