I'm glad you started this thread! Let me tell you first of all that my boss tells me that I have OCD badly...about everything! I am obsessed with post-it notes...have them all over the place at work & home. I also have a million lists of things to do...and when it gets close to vacation, I have a list for each suitcase. BUT a vacation is a VACATION to me!! You are absolutely RIGHT about that!!!!

When I go on vacation, I want to relax and just go with the flow. I do not want stress...and I think when people make a list of things to do & places to see & what time to do it...if they don't meet their every expectation, they get waaaay too stressed! I think the best way to plan the perfect vacation is to not plan at all!
Everytime I've gone on vacation at WDW, I grab a map as soon as I walk into the park. I look to see what time the parade starts & the fireworks...thats it! And I don't plan ahead of time where I'm going to stand...thats too hard with small children (in my opinion). The day we arrive at WDW, I always grab a few maps from the front lobby desk, but only to look them over...not to plan what time I'm riding which ride. I can't imagine what people do when they think they're riding the teacups at MK at 2:30pm and end up riding them at 2:47 because of a long line! (Do they have a nervous breakdown?!?) I am an obsessive planner, but I am aware that somethings you just cannot plan for...like long lines, parks being extremely busy, your kids getting sick, someone is hungry, someone needs to use the restroom when you're waiting in a line, etc.
I am actually stressed because on our vacation this year, I HAVE to plan a few things...and I don't want to HAVE to have structure in our vacation when we're supposed to be relaxing & not stressed! Last year, we didn't get a few meals we wanted because we didn't do ADR's...so this year I am planning to do 3 ADR's. We also are doing a private photo session, so I will have to plan that day so we make it there on time. And like I said, that part is stressing me out! I'd much, much rather just have to worry about what time I need to get to the airport & check-in at my hotel. That alone is enough to worry about! lol
You mentioned that you don't get to see or do everything that people who plan get to see & you said that doesn't bother you one bit. I agree...I don't try to see everything. I think thats completely impossible! I also think if you want to "take everything in" and truly enjoy it, you need to take your time instead of rushing from place to place. Its kinda ironic that I say this because on our last trip, we actually walked around & saw every inch of each park by 4:30pm (we got to the parks within an hour after opening time each day). Keep in mind that I had an infant so we weren't able to ride...waiting in lines is what takes up a lot of time. But my point is that it was sooo relaxing & we all had a really great time! I took over 700 pictures at the parks and probably another hundred at the resort. We also got to enjoy our resort a lot more because we weren't rushing...we just went with the flow. If someone was hungry, we looked around & found something to eat. If we passed a shop that looked interesting, we stopped to shop. If we wanted to rest, we found a bench to sit on. It was so incredibly relaxing! I know a lot of people don't like QS restaurants & I don't understand it because they are so convenient & the food is decent. I guess if you have the dining plan, you need more structure to plan meals as well as getting more for your money if you eat at sit-down dining instead of QS.
I guess that it just depends on the individual person. Someone mentioned their husband wouldn't like it if they planned every little thing -- I am with you on that one! lol If I told my husband we had to be somewhere by 2pm, he would get stressed out & probably mad at me! We both agree & like to relax on our trips! Everyone is different...as I said, I'm a planner so I have complete respect for people who do choose to plan. Its just not for me on vacations!
