lpbm4 said:
I guess it was mostly feeling rushed, maybe we do enjoy more of a relaxing setting and not having to be here for a show (and then sit and wait for 1/2hr in order to have a good seat), be there for an ADR, hurry to get there for the sleigh ride time. I think I wish we had forgotten the
DDP, not read the Disboards, and discovered "the magic" all on our own.
I've been to Disney World 4 times as an adult, two of those times in the past 18 months. If I did what you did, as described in the above quote, we would have had a terrible time, too!
In our total of two weeks there over the past 18 months, we had exactly two meal experiences where you schedule AND pay in advance (Hoop Dee Doo Revue, breakfast at Cinderella's Royal Table) and exactly two ADR's (Crystal Palace character meal last time, Chef Mickey's character meal last month). Other than that, we ate counter service, and had breakfasts in our room with grocery delivery food.
We rush for nothing.
To us, vacation is all about relaxing, NOT having a schedule like at home the rest of the year. I can't relax knowing we've gotta be somewhere at a certain time.
We have almost no ADRs to get to, and we don't schedule any special events that take place by appointment or at an exact time. The lone exception to that is seeing Wishes at least once.
But I totally disagree with you about the DISboards. I LOVE the information I've gathered (as well as the information I share!). It's been invaluable to me to know all the information I know, not so I can plan things in advance, but rather so that no matter what situation I'm in at WDW, I can figure out the most efficient or fun way to do next whatever it is we want to do.
Each day, we don't know what park we're going to until late the night before, or the morning of. We pretty much let our kids, 6 and 4, decide what they want to do next, and we roll with it, for the most part.
No appointments. No schedules. No clocks. NO WORRIES.