I haven't started shopping but I've been making a mental list for my kids.
I proposed a trip instead of Christmas presents, and kept proposing it for a month and they still aren't liking the idea so a traditional Christmas morning it will be.
My dd is away at school so I already told her that she wasn't going to be getting stuff to take back, other than little things from her stocking.
She's been wanting an upgrade for her phone so I may do that. We give her plenty of cash to cover her expenses for the semester, but I know she tries not to spend it on things like make-up, clothes, and things so she will end up with a bunch of GCs to stores she likes to shop at.
Maybe a small TV for her dorm room.
My one ds told me he wants a VR headset and a waterproof speaker.
My other ds is always the hardest to buy for. He'll probably request something for gaming, a new mouse, keyboard, or game but other than that he never has any wants. He'll probably end up with cash.
Dh and I will agree to no gifts but we will end up getting stuff for each other. I get him more practical stuff since he hates to shop, and I just tell him what I want and he has me buy it for myself so we are pretty easy
We have our parents, and a grandparent to buy for too. Last year someone here mentioned Goldbely and that has been a gift giving life saver for me this past year. I will do that again for Christmas.
I will still push to go away, maybe if I nag them enough they will say yes to shut me up