My sister owned a home there for a few years, sold it last spring. She didn't spend the whole year there (the company she works for has offices there) but had the best of both worlds by spending time in that office over the winter
Cost of living-- expen$ive!!
Crime - I don't think the wealthy (for the most part) locals would like to admit it, but it's probably comparable to any small city. Not urban/violent type stuff, but there were some violent mall-parking-lot assaults going on last winter when we were there for a visit.
Schools-- she doesn't have kids but she said most of the people in her development with kids sent them to private schools.
Being a New Englander, I loved "living la vida Boca"

(as she put it) on visits....her house had a patio and screened in pool area.... It has lots of gated residential developments and complexes, and lots of upscale strip malls.
Returning to NH late spring my sister would sigh with relief at how nice it was to go to the supermarket here and not "battle the blue-hairs" at the deli counter and in the parking lot. heeheehe
