I know people see the holidays as a time to see family you don't get to see the rest of the year. Not me, though. My thoughts are that if I'm not important enough for you to see, talk to, email during the rest of the year(besides the times you want something) then you aren't important for me to see on the holidays. My brother and sister in law make such a big deal of seeing each other (at THEIR convenience) over the holidays. Yet, I'm the one spending money I don't have and preparing meals I don't want to so I can keep the peace. I am DETERMINED not to do that this year. I will do for my girls and they can do for their family. I don't want to get together or anything. I want my family here (that's me and my two girls and the animals) and that is all. Now, let's see if I can stick with that.
Fair enough.










